#brundlemcfly

[apres-garde]

brundlemcfly said: salad so gooood though

  kale, shallots, spicy pickled cranberries, duck confit, and duck fat vinaigrette oh my godddddddd 8-)

[mulletwing]

Tagged by anywigwilldo ^.^

Rule 1 - Post the rules Rule 2 - Answer the questions the tagger set for you in their post and then make 11 new ones Rule 3 - Tag 11 people and link them to your post Rule 4 - Let them know you’ve tagged them

Anywigwilldo's questions:   1. What does your dream occupation/future/world look like? If you can do, or be, or have anything in your future, what does that look like to you? Oh hell. I'd love it if I could find my own little spot in this world. I'd love it if I could support myself through crochet and spend my days crocheting from home while hanging out with my dog and singing to myself. I might have to move to a more urban area for that, but I'd hope to find solitude there still. Really, I'd like a cabin in a hard to reach area but it's not practical. I'd like to spend my days with my girlfriend while she goes to school and studies. It'd be nice to get out of the house and have a loyal group of (feminist) friends to see. That's all I want, puzzle pieces that fit. My own slice of life pie. 

2. How are you feeling today? I overslept for work today so a little guilty. It is my first day back from a week off with the flu :/ Other than that, a little hopeful. I've started journaling again and that helps.  3. Do you have a hard time saying “I love you” to the people you care for (non-family people let’s say)? Not at all. Saying I love you comes easily for me. I'm not afraid to let people know I care. I know how nice it is to hear ^.^

4. What is one usual item you have on your “bucket list”? Usual or unusual? I don't really have much of a bucket list. I just want to be happy. Things change but I'd feel accomplished if I was happy and financially stable. 5. What’s one quality about yourself that you want people to notice, or hope is an outstanding characteristic?

My favorite compliments are that I know myself very well, another is that I'm empathetic. I really like those. I hope I project those well to others.  6. You have $5000 to give to one of two people: A single mom with two sons, or a single dad with two daughters. Who do you pick, and why? (The humanitarian in you may think to split it in half and give to both families, but try to pick just one.)

I think it would depend on other factors. I would of course prefer to split it but it would make more of an impact going all to one family. I would see what children have plans for a more expensive school or which family could use a car or something. I'd want the money to make the biggest impact it could. 

7. Do you prefer to be hot, or cold?

Cold cold cold. I hate being hot. I get angry when it's hot.  8. One ridiculous childhood dream, or dream you’ve had for a long time, that you would still like to make come true.

I would love to sing professionally but I've had to give up on that dream and I just try to bury it now.  9. Going along the belief that in relationships one person is always “more” in love than the other, would you rather love your S.O. more than they love you, or would you rather be loved by your S.O. more than you love them?

Eeh, this is hard. Honestly I feel like we're both as crazy about each other. I would want to be more in love though. I think that'd hurt less for the other person. To be so devoted and know they don't care for you as much, idk, I'd rather be the one who takes the bullet.  10. Which of the “seven deadly sins” do you find to be the worst, or to be the biggest pet peeve/turn off? (Gluttony, pride, envy, sloth, greed, lust, wrath.)

GREED. The root of all evil in my mind. Greed for power, control, idk. It comes in so many forms and it just disgusts me. I actually think it's the sin that makes them all.  11. What kind of affection do you want today? (Subtle, comforting, tender, gentle, supportive, nurturing, passionate, etc.) I could go for some support today that sounds awesome, hah.  

My questions: 1. Who are your otps/ships? List as many as you like. How obsessed are you?

2. Think back to a time you were betrayed by someone you cared about. Did you react the way you wanted? Are you still holding a grudge? Do you still speak to that person?

3.What are some pet peeves of yours that you think are unusual or uncommon? How badly do they annoy you? (Ex. When people label crochet as knitting I tend to get a little twitchy)

4.What's a skill you wish to possess? Is it something that can be taught? Have you attempted it before?

5. What are some important issues to you? Do you feel they are addressed enough? (Ex. Rape culture, world hunger, etc.) 

6. Do you feel you have enough private space? If not, why? What's your dream space look like? Would it have another purpose or just be a place of relaxation? 

7. Are you pretty nostalgic? Do you hold onto or collect anything you grew up with? What are some memories of your childhood that make you nostalgic? 

8. Are you happy? Would you consider yourself a happy person? What makes you happy? What do you need to be happy? 

9. Do you have any bad habits? Anything that puts a strain in your relationships?  (Ex. Texting excessively, not answering your phone, eating other people's food) 

10. If you were to create a superhero how would they look? Would they resemble or represent you? What's their origin story? Would they wear a mask? 

11. Do you have an online shop? Promote yourself here ^.^  What do you sell in your shop? If you don't have a shop, do you have a deviantart or another website you'd like to promote?