I just wanna try and explain this from a phychological perspective.some people, to deal with the trauma in their life, write about it. and that's okay.
they share this writing because they know that there are people out there that can relate to the trauma and use the writing as a way of coping.
in fact, many therapists use writing as a way to help their patients. whether it be about rape or attempted murder it still works the same.
it's not sexualising abuse or rape or incest or whatever, it's dealing with trauma. people deal with that in their own way and if you don't like their way then that's okay but just dont send hate to the accounts. just block them.
you deserve to feel safe in your own in the same way they deserve to feel safe on theirs. have a good day.
i know many therapists use writing as a way to help, my own therapist gave me this advice. you know what she didn’t tell me to do though? to write it about an underage character and post it online and tag it as smut for the entire world to read and masturbate to. it is quite literally something that is meant only for you and your health professional to know about. the minute you post it for an audience to enjoy, it is no longer a therapeutic tool, it’s you sexualizing something for others to get off to, others who you have no way of checking are also victims and survivors and not just freaks and perverts, like it almost always is. also literally nobody writes out their trauma graphically in porno format like smut??? nobody writes AUs of their trauma with fictional characters in a format meant to jerk off to and to find sexual and hot???
exhibit a of that: the person i called out yesterday is not writing it to cope, they’ve made so many posts about how much the enjoy writing incest and rape and pedophilia and how it turns them on.... y’all are absolutely sick and depraved.
and frankly why don’t YOU just block me and get the fuck away from me instead of invading my space and trying to convince me that the most traumatic event of my life is something that’s totally normal to jerk off to. while you’re at it please jump in front of a train <3 like in what world do you think it’s ok for me to say “i am feeling so unsafe and triggered by ppl telling me they’re getting off to rape as a rape and pedophilia survivor” and for you to respond with a long ass ask like “ACTUALLY it’s perfectly ok bc i’m decontextualizing and misconstruing medical advice given to survivors of rape and pedophilia”
this is the last ask i respond to about this. anybody else who’s got twisted disgusting INHUMANE shit to say will simply get blocked and reported for harassment.
