#bustysaintclair

[gayharoldfinch]

@bustysaintclair replied to your post “@bustysaintclair replied to your post “i got a new phone but i lost...”

Nice!!!! Next time that happens to me I'm pinging you to help

tbh i couldn’t have done it if i didn’t have my old phone still. i just needed to make an account and then sign in on my new phone

[gayharoldfinch]

@bustysaintclair replied to your post “i got a new phone but i lost all my progress in candy crush ��”

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actually scratch that i figured it out hah

[gayharoldfinch]

@bustysaintclair replied to your post “@bustysaintclair replied to your post “@bustysaintclair replied to...”

yeah it can take a lot of forms but one of them is definitely about gaining some perspective on what's going on with you by, for example, watching a movie that both distracts you from your own shit and also reminding yourself that there are things that are bigger than you, which can minimize the current distress

when i used to get depressed much more often about my health and stuff comparing my problems to bigger problems just made me feel worse because i was ashamed for making such a big deal. it might have been because i thought my problems were incurable. it helps that i know being misgendered is temporary

[gayharoldfinch]

@bustysaintclair replied to your post “@bustysaintclair replied to your post “@bustysaintclair replied to...”

that's actually a DBT distress tolerance skill - comparison! it's hugely helpful to me as well.

i don’t know anything about dbt, i only studied act and cbt. but i don’t think it was really comparison i was doing. just something bigger than myself taking my mind of my own little problems. unless that’s in the same category as dbt comparison

[gayharoldfinch]

@bustysaintclair replied to your post “@bustysaintclair replied to your post “laday at the supermarket today...”

A good movie really can fix a lot of things, can't it :)

yup. especially if the subject matter is bigger than you are. it makes your problems seem much smaller

[gayharoldfinch]

@bustysaintclair replied to your post “laday at the supermarket today said to another employee there “could...”

:-///

yeah :/// but some alco pops and a good movie have helped alleviate the wave of dysphoria haha

[gayharoldfinch]

@bustysaintclair replied to your photo

she is such a treasure

she’s the best <3

[its-a-bi-vy]

bustysaintclair replied to your post “why does the daddy dom/ little girl stuff creep you out?”

lmao WHAT "why does play-incest freak you out?" .... you just answered your own question, anon

People are free to have what ever kinks they have. Consenting adults can do what they like with each other. But holy hell as a victim of incest it’s going to make my skin crawl whenever I see it - and I don’t consent to it so keep it the hell away from me.