#byk.vnt

[beateatnest]

Sometimes I start typing things and then I go "Huh maybe I should get a therapist"

[beateatnest]

Is there a name for hating when people you know have no experience in a thing you're familiar with try to act like they know more than you?

[beateatnest]

People are so hasty to say that an asian character's experience isn't that of a person of color's because they're asian...? not once have I been treated the same way a white person has while growing up.

[beateatnest]

Irls keep forgetting I'm a TRANS man and that my family is CONSERVATIVE!!! This is gonna get me killed one day, I swear!!

[beateatnest]

I'm lucky to have found myself at a young age. To have people around me who would support me, so I could live as the boy I am. But how much longer do I keep pretending? When will I truly be safe? When can I truly be myself?

[beateatnest]

"They're gonna have to accept you eventually."

They won't. I remember talking to my mother about trans people when I was 10. Of course I didn't have the words for it then, but I asked "can girls become boys?" It was met with a 20 minute long lecture about religion and "God's intended purpose." I hear my siblings call trans people "it" constantly. I just feel like I'd actually die somehow if they found out the truth. I love my family despite it all, so I really don't know what to do. Thinking about the future scares me because this kind of stuff WILL come up. I still have the whole life ahead of me, but even then..

[beateatnest]

Gender dysphoria is kicking my nuts again, I might just chop off a good chunk of my hair tomorrow

[beateatnest]

yes try forcing your introvert child to go to an event he's clearly expressed distaste in going to several times and has blatantly stated he doesn't want to go. Yes you should blatantly lie to him about the event and it's participants just so he feels better about going even though you don't know shit about the participants