#cactusasks

[cactus-juiceee]

oh my, i just came across this and i do not regret a thing. it is ***beautiful!***

Ahh thank you very much!!! 💕

[cactusxberries]

The way you handled the non binary anon was very disrespectful of people’s gender identity. Whether you knew or not, you made a mistake when referring to someone’s gender identity. So saying that it “wasn’t even rude” is just not the right way to handle it. You obviously hurt people, so maybe just apologize and admit your mistake. As we grow up we realize that our impact on people can be different than our intent, and we need to be respectful of that. It’s all a learning curve, but be kind.

If this is the same anon, I already explained what I meant as well as made a separate post and edited the challenge to clarify what I meant. There’s not much else I can do.

[cactus-juiceee]

Hi! I just wanted to say that your art is beautiful! And I love how flowy Hua Cheng's hair looks in the drawing where Xie Lian lifts him, it's really pretty ♥

Shsksk thank you so much!! Sorry if I’m answering this late, I’m embarrassed to say this is my first time getting an ask ;-:;;

[cactus-juiceee]

hI your style is so soft and i love your use of colors!!! have a great day u funky lil artist 💕💕💕

Aww thank u!! This is very nice because I never know what I’m doing when it comes to colors lol ☺️💕💕

[cactusxberries]

your theme colours really hurt my eyes and your font is too small and hard to read

Hey nonny :)

I can fix the font to make it readable, but I’m not changing my colors - I’m sorry. The colors are made to match the banner so that it’s all cohesive.

EDIT: My berry blog, the family pages, and my new preview (not done yet) are all going to match this color theme. So I’m sorry that they hurt your eyes :(

[cactusxberries]

17, 30, 32, 33, 39, & 46

17: What size is your bed? Queen :)30: When was the last time you wrote a letter to someone on paper? It’s probably been about 11 years.32: Ever gotten a speeding ticket? Nope :)33: Ever ran out of gas? Thankfully…NO!!39: What is your Chinese astrological sign? I’m gonna have to look that one up…year of the tiger :)46: Are you afraid of heights? I’m not sure if it’s heights or falling that I’m afraid of, but it’s definitely one of those. I can climb up, but once I look down - I’m practically frozen.

[cactusxberries]

hey, in your Banilla-Berry Legacy Challenge you posted, one of the rules is that your sim can be "normal or nonbinary". did you realize it's pretty rude to refer to nonbinary people as "not normal," implicitly or explicitly? just wondering.

Nonbinary = aliens, faliens, vampires, etc. Normal = human (in my legacy challenge).

Not everyone uses the same term with the same meanings. So actually, what I wrote isn’t rude at all.

[cactusxberries]

18, 19, 20 💕 Also I hope you have a great day

18: What is your Song of the week? well i haven’t listened to much music lately, but the last one stuck in my head was “Ring My Bell.” It’s a song from 1979 that was in a Walmart commercial.19: Is it okay for guys to wear pink?Absolutely!! I always say “real men wear pink” :) My dad owned a pink shirt and boy did he own it - he looked good in pink :)20:  Do you still watch cartoons? LOL yes. I’m actually watching a cartoon right now (Vampirina). How’d you know? WHAT IS THIS WIZARDY that you knew lol. I love cartoons <3