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[cactusxberries]

Get to Know Me

Nickname: Nexxa Gender: Female Astrological Sign: Leo (Sun) 🌞 Gemini (Moon) 🌙   Height: 5′2″ Sexuality: Bisexual Hogwarts House: Ravenclaw / Ivybell Favorite Animal: Cats Number of Blankets: 1-2 Where I’m From: Florida, USA (originally) Dream Trip: Ireland 🍀 When I Created This Account: April 2015 Why I Created This Account: Sharing stories and CC

[blindingechoes]

Went and checked out some of my friend’s houses on Sims Mobile and ended up giggling at a few things. Like @claudiasharon sims arguing, one eventually pulled out an air horn and blew it loudly at the other. Or on of @cyberqueen-13 Sims typing like their wrists were rubber lol. @cactusxberries Sim checking herself out in the bathroom mirror, and of course @berrysweetboutique poor Sim getting electrocuted by their partner a bunch of times lol! It’s so funny what they do when they’re just left on their own,

[theworstsimblr]

What 10 year old? I didn't get any 10 year old to join BSB. Leave me the fuck alone Beth.

Hmm for some reason I could have sworn when swim-sim joined and then subsequently got kicked you said you were their friend, but going back and checking I was wrong and that’s my bad

And I have been leaving you alone. Ever since you ATTACKED me for mentioning wet cat food offhandedly I shut my mouth, blocked you, and ignored you completely (which you definitely complained about but whatever) But I can’t keep quiet any longer.

You have been racist and have not done anything to rectify the things you did wrong.

You have been transphobic and did nothing to rectify the things you did wrong until you got messaged personally by one person, as I said not listening to anons who were SCARED of you (and yes, I know who they were and no, they weren’t me because I was ignoring you and also no I will not tell you. No one else is getting bullied off of simblr by you)

You are a racist, for the simple fact that you wont listen to POC who try to gently correct you! (when they’re not even required to be nice to deserve respect)

You are transphobic, for the simple fact that you’re a complete asshole when anyone corrects you on pronouns, even if you listen and correct you still respond so rudely for no reason. just a quick lesson from a trans individual, the best response to someone correcting you on pronouns (theirs or otherwise) no matter how you interpret their request, rude or otherwise, is something along the lines of “Oops, sorry!” and just completely dropping it and correcting yourself from then on. Continuing to say “that’s just how my brain works!” and “it’s hard” is fucking annoying AND making the issue all about you when it has nothing to goddamn do with you.

You keep making everything about you “oh no I guess no one can stand to be around me” “I never meant to do anything wrong” but you really need to listen to what the people you hurt say instead. You’re not going to make anything better with apologies when you keep showing the same behavior and never actually correct yourself.

[plumbobsandllamas]

Sent in by @cowplantmuffin @plantghostsims @cactusxberries and @laceyharpersims 💕

I can’t think of twenty facts, so I’ll do a combined five!

I’m currently in my final year at university. Four months to go!

I wanted to be a “games designer” when I was a kiddo, and I actually started university on a Games Development course. However, I switched to Computing in 2nd year and I’ve been there ever since. 

I love iced coffee. Doesn’t matter if it’s freezing outside, I’ll drink it!

I go through phases where I’m OBSESSED with a certain food, and I’ll eat it until I get so sick of it I never want to see it again.

When I’m not playing Sims, you’ll find me on FFXIV or Dead By Daylight. There’s a bunch of other games I enjoy too, but those are the ones I play the most.

[coliswonderland]

TAG. YOU'RE IT. The rules are to state 5 random facts about yourself. Then go to ten favorite blogs and tell them they are it! *-*

I love strawberry mango smoothies

I love knitting

I’m learning to crochet

I love Chinese food

I’m indecisive :D

[cactusxberries]

A Year In Review...

Almost 3 years ago, I lost my father rather suddenly and very unexpected. Everything was fine one moment then hours later, he was gone. It destroyed me and my whole world. My best friend was gone in the blink of an eye. I went to grief counseling and I thought I was okay. Heck, I thought I was handling it well. I wasn’t. I lashed out at so many people - my husband, people on Discord, and people on Tumblr. This wasn’t fair to my husband or to those online...it wasn’t fair to anyone. Even worse than my behavior is that I had no idea why I was feeling the way I was. Like I said, I thought I was handling it well. I fooled myself into thinking that. It wasn’t until after this shit storm that I realized why I was behaving the way I was. It took awhile for me rebuild my own relationship with my husband. To be honest, I can’t believe he stuck with me despite how I treated him for 2 years. I walked away from Tumblr and from Discord for awhile because I needed to fix my life and deal with this loss (which still hurts a lot). All I can do now is hope that those who suffered from my bitchiness/wrath/whatever you want to call it, and anyone who was hurt, can forgive me. I’m not asking anyone to be like “hey, let’s be friends again” because I wouldn’t blame those for not wanting to be like that. If those who were affected can forgive me then that’s all that matters to me. I have worked on my life and tried to move on the best that I could do.

[cactusxberries]

I’m Back Bitches

Some thought they could get rid of me for good and I thought I’d be gone for good, but I’m not. I’m back bitches and no one can get rid of me. I never should’ve walked away, but here I am to stay.

[cactusxberries]

I’m making chicken saltimbocca. Such an exciting journal entry, right? Why did I even write this for my journal? I’m such a goof.