#cakeguy

[miseryhatescompany]

That's a wrap for the @letseatcakess fambam 🎉✨ @ the #maplefoodmarket #mafamille #cakelady #cakegirls #cakeguy #cakeboys #LetsEatCakes 🍰 (at Great Eastern Mall)

[guyfierihair]

#HonourableMention #CakeGuy 

[sunnydayseveryday]

How do I get this across to you, CakeGuy? When you stopped listening, when you took advantage of me, when you forgot that I was there, I left. I thought I would be able to come back, but I'm not. I'm not coming back, ever. 

I saw you the other day, and I felt nothing. Not to say that I don't have feelings for you, but I didn't want to just jump back into your arms. I like how my life is without you in it. 

[sunnydayseveryday]

Cakeguy, please stop calling me. I don't want to talk to you. I can't say no, but I really don't want to talk to you. No matter what you say, you're not going to win me back. I'm tired of your shit, and nothing's gonna change. I know this, because we've been through it several times already. So stop calling me. And don't say you love me. You obviously don't know what that means.

[sunnydayseveryday]

Residual

Oh boy. So I broke up with CakeGuy, and CakeGuy didn't think we broke up, and I had to awkwardly let him know that things have ended. And that conversation consequently ended in a "give me more time" statement. So where am I now? 

I'm stuck in a weird break/relationship with CakeGuy, the Saboteur keeps calling me, Old Flame wants to visit me and stay in my apartment, and there's a new guy, Veggie (his actual name is a vegetable). All while I still keep thinking about this one guy from high school who I was in love with for years (I'll call him First Love). I haven't talked to FL since I was dating Old Flame (yes, they were best friends), and I feel like if we were given another chance, something might happen. Really happen. Now that CakeGuy and I have gone our separate ways, maybe this is the time to pursue that. 

But I'm still in love with CakeGuy. Is it residual? Or should we work things out? I'm a bit skeptical. 

Leave me a note if you're interested in what happened with First Love. 

[sunnydayseveryday]

You.

Even with everything that's happened with CakeGuy, I keep thinking about that one person, that one person who was a constant to me through the years. I'm pretty sure he was my first love. And I never knew what it was like to be with him. I left.

Lane, if there is some chance that you stumble across this, it's me. After every relationship I have ends, my mind wanders back to you. Even after all these years. We lost touch when I moved away, but I still miss you. There was something there that I'd hate to let go. Please come find me, Lane. 

Love,

S. from New York

[sunnydayseveryday]

Someone help me?

I don't know what to do. 

It has become very clear to me that in 1-2 years, CakeGuy and will most likely go our separate ways. Simply because we want different things in life. And I don't want to blindly go with him. 

I love him, but over the past year, it has been dwindling. I feel like I'm at slowly sipping at the last little portion left in my heart. I want it to last, I want to keep loving him, but I don't know if I can. I know that unless he decides to go with me after school, that it will end. I'm not going to let a relationship stop me from doing what I want to do in life. Because I know I'd regret it. 

But CakeGuy might change his mind. I desperately want him to prove to me why I should stay with him. Sometimes he does. Sometimes he kisses me before he leaves. Sometimes he curls up with me in bed. But it's rare. I can't even talk to him at dinner anymore. He just sits there and claims he's tired. 

Where's the passion? If we're like this after only 2 years, how will it be after 20? I don't want to spend the rest of my life in a relationship/marriage where I can't even speak to the person I love without them pushing me away. I don't think he knows what's going on in my life at all. 

I don't want to end it, but I feel like I should. Everything is telling me that the love and passion is long gone. 

What should I do? 

[robin-in-the-tulip-tree]

He definitely kissed me this time. And he paid for the meal. (I gave him 10$ back after some cajoling.) and he walked me home and said he'd miss me. My heart is sore from overexertion.