Cakequeer
Flag coined by me.
A CakeQueer isn't just one ideology or thing but a spectrum of the following ideologies:
Example 1: "I don't feel valid enough to consider myself radqueer even if I go by the ideology's. I still love the community, but I don't consider myself a radqueer because I feel invalid, so I call myself a Cakequeer"
Example 2: "I go by a different ideology from radqueer, I support transabled, and TransAutism but I respectfully disagree with the TransNazi, TransHarmful, and other identites considered "harmful", but I still try to be supportive even though I disagree, but I will for now on not consider myself a radqueer because, and if, I feel that way; due to the mindset I have. So I am a CakeQueer"
Example 3: "I go by my own ideology, and made up my own, but I dont know what to name my ideology, so I am a CakeQueer"
Example 4: "I feel more than a radqueer, something bigger. But I dont know what it is, so I will call myself CakeQueer because I don't know what to call myself or make up!"
Example 5: "I IDENTIFY as this ideology in a trans way"
Example 6: "I personally disagree with paraphilias and only interacting with the anti contacts, but I will respect the pro contacts by setting my boundary of bot interacting, but I don't consider them harmful I am just uncomfortable and I show a dislike to it"
Example 7: "I prefer this label more than radqueer"
Example 8: "I use this label as a xeno/neopronoun"
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What makes you NOT a CakeQueer? -
1. Harassing Radqueers.
Even if you disagree and cannot stand them, you should ignore them, dislike them, and move on to respect their identity.
2. Calling the paraphilias you personally disagree with "harmful" (pro contacts/neutral contacts), to be a CakeQueer, you are not supposed to call them harmful, you are just to stay uncomfortable and dislike. Paraphilias aren't harmful, their actions are harmful.
3. Hating on fictionkins and therians. The whole point of CakeQueer is to be respectful and ignore the people you dislike.
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"can I be radqueer and a CakeQueer?"
Yes! that would be example 4 or 5 of the ISP (ISP - Ideology SPectrum)
"How do I tell people what type of CakeQueer ideology I go by/What type of cakequeer I am?"
It's pretty easy don't worry, let me put it in simple words; if you go by example 1's Ideology, you call yourself an "Example 1 CakeQueer"
"Can I be CakeQueer and dislike certain identitys?"
Yes, that's the whole point. Just don't harrass them. And at this point don't even debate them IF they didn't ask for debate.
"Am I still a CakeQueer if I support all Identitys and paraphilias?"
Yes that would be EP1, EP5, EP4, EP7, and EP8
(EP- ExamPle)
"Does CakeQueer support antis?"
Depends on how you act. If you don't harrass people then you are NOT an Anti, you are a CakeQueer, this can go with shipping discourse too but that would be a Proshipper in this case which is what I am.
"What if I don't identify with any of these ideologies, but I still feel CakeQueer"
If you feel like a CakeQueer, go by the "Anti harrassment" Ideology, and you just prefer the label. You are a EP8 and EP7 CakeQueer! So you are still valid.
"There's already a term for all of that"
I DONT CARE /lh. And if the term matches with this then that officially connects with CakeQueer and that term
They are still welcomed.
Anyways heres a question for you guys.
Which emoji combo should be CakeQueer?
👑🍰
🌈🍰/🏳️🌈🍰
Annndd that's pretty much all.
If you dont like the idea of CakeQueer then you can ignore, super duper easy!
