#cakesexuality

[psychotic-psypport]

Congrats on coming to the conclusion that you're autistic!! I was professionally diagnosed when I was 12 and you're honestly very justified in not wanting to seek a professional diagnosis yourself

Thank you!! I was always nervous about "faking" a diagnosis even though I've always been pro informed self dx?? So your vote of confidence/validation means a whole lot to me, thank you!

[blue-bismuth]

Idk it might depend on your provider or where you live but you might not have to have a pap after you turn 25!! I'm 29 and have never had one bc I've never been active so whenever I'm offered one and I tell them that, they are always like "Oh never mind then" bc I have below-average HPV risk

huh, i've always been told you had to get one yearly after you turn 21 or when you first become sexually active (up until my most recent doctor who said my risk of getting it was basically 0% since well. y'know. so since it sucks so much ass for me it wasn't necessary) (i could also very well be misremembering bc memory garbage)

maybe i'll find out whenever my next appointment is

[alittlebitgoofy]

Congrats on your surgery happening in September 🎉

I am having surgery of my own (albeit a different kind of surgery) NEXT September (if things go as I hope) bc THIS September I'm going back to school and will be in a physically demanding program until the end of August, and also it's unclear if my surgery is gender-affirming but you know 🤝

september is for surgery omg that's so real tho, i'm doing it the other way around though, this september is surgery next september i'm going back to uni (i won't have to bind oh joy) and hoping to study singing full time :D but yeah it's kinda terrifying but in an amazing way!!

[thetimecrystal]

∞

put a “∞” in my ask box and I’ll shuffle my music player and give you my favorite lyric from the song that comes up.

every part of me says, "go ahead" / i got my hopes up again, oh no, not again

[sexynetra]

🌻

He’s sniffing you.

Diagnosis: NOT stinky!!

[moonshotsx]

I saw you got an anon earlier about Daya's makeup changing and

To me, it seems like she's changed her brows and lips. Not a major change, but my brain processes faces as a collection of parts rather than a cohesive unit, so it can feel like a big change if you're like me and think two people look alike bc they just have the same jawline or some shit lol

i get what you mean, but daya's make up has been looking like the second pic for a while now (not to mention, daya actually changes her make up a lot depending on the look she's going for)

the only thing i saw her doing in the past few weeks a lot is wearing the black eye contacts that really change up how she looks to me

[sapphicsupremacist]

Ohh you're vegan?? Do you have any recommendations for non-dairy stuff from the grocery store that doesn't have almonds?? I'm not vegan, my immune system just does what it wants, and right now I'm really enjoying the So Delicious coconut-based ice creams

Oh I sure do!!

For milk I use Oat Dream because I find it's best in tea, but regular soy milk for baking. You can also make you own oat milk really really easily and get the consistency/taste you want (plus it costs virtually nothing... just oats and water)

The best yoghurt I've had is Riviera brand oat-based (the coconut is good too, I'm just an oat girly). Silk is also good (and cheaper)

If you're Canadian and have President's Choice at your grocery stores they have a really good block of vegan butter that's great especially for baking

Violife and Earth Island are generally really great brands for cheese and cheese-related products. They're a bit pricey, but very good imo! If you ever need really fancy cheeses for some reason, Fauxmagerie Zengarry and Nuts for Cheese (both cashew-based) are incredible BUT ridiculously expensive

And finally, avoid Daiya products!! Almost every Daiya product I've tried has tasted pretty bad. Some people like it, but the general consensus is that it sucks

[dayabot]

Okay so my silly little story is that my height was measured at 5'4" when I was 15 and I didn't think I'd grown at all since then so I kept going thinking that was my height as an adult. And then it was finally measured again when I went for an allergy test at 24 and it was 5'3" which I was totally ready to accept bc I have scoliosis which can cause you to lose height (e.g. I watch someone on YouTube who would be 6'0" if she had a normal spine but instead she's 5'9" due to scoliosis). And then a few months after that, they measured me for whatever reason when I went for my birth control injection and I'm actually 5'5"??? So I was just hunched over at the allergist's and also I'm no longer the same height as Patrick Stump which makes me a tiny bit sad lol. Also I'm short and my brother's tall and we have EDS but being tall and being short are BOTH symptoms of EDS so it's like... okay so which one of us got their height from EDS and which one of us is just Like That

so you were 5'4 and then '5'3 and then 5'5?? that's wild :o ur aaaaaalmost the same height as patrick stump now though so i hope the ~almost~ is some consolation ^^ my brother and i are like the inverse of you and yours minus the EDS he's a short king and i'm a tall bitch and i have no idea how that works genetics are weird and traits are strange