so . . . i mentioned about two weeks ago that i was going on a holiday with my family. and what a holiday it was. my children's first time in an airport, airplane, sleeping in beds that are not their own — – and they were SO AMAZING. some whining to be expected, but no melt downs, no sobbing and upsetting surrounding passengers. just snacks, app matching games, and in flight entertainment.
we did some fun activities like visiting the children's museum, going to the nasa space centre, eating at different restaurant chains that we don't have home in canada, and experiencing an aquarium because apparently the province we live in is Lame as Hell for not having more than goldfish tanks at pet smart. & yes, i went on this vacation to bond with my family, to have some new experiences . . . but nothing could prepare me for the fulfillment, utter joy and heartbreak of meeting my best friend in person.
from the minute @callmeteor stepped out of their car, to me running across the street (not looking both ways, bad mama ari) and hugging my best friend for the first time, that is an experience i will remember for the rest of my life. AND I ONLY CRIED A LITTLE !! i fully expected to sob, fully expected to not be able to take pictures because i cried my eyeliner off . . . but instead, took so many pictures with aster as we got to actually be in each other's physical company.
on the left, is my lily tattoo with aerith's hand holding the floret . . . and on the right, is aster's lily with the save symbol. ಥ◡ಥ i haven't had the opportunity (or extra finances) to get a tattoo, so getting this lily on the same arm as my parent's cursive, now just gives me so much to smile about. my best friend, my parents, my little moon . . . IM EMOTIONAL.
the long and short of this post is: thank you to the people in my life, were apart of my life, and everyone in between who introduced aster to me. thank you to aster who not only drove down to where me + my family were vacationing so we could spend a few days together, but also drove us places as i was PETRIFIED TO DRIVE ON HIGHWAYS WHERE THERE IS FIVE LANES OF TRAFFIC ???? insane that you can do that, btw. my canadian two maybe three lane ass could never. i say best friend so many times when referring to @callmeteor because they have shown me how incredible it is to have a best friend. how rewarding life is to have someone you feel so close and safe with, and what makes saying goodbye to someone so special so hard. even when you know the goodbye is only physically, not indefinitely.
thank you for making my 2025, trip to houston. from memories with my girlies, with my hubby, my MIL . . . and my best friend.












