Well. I think most of the time, he saw people through a lense of distrust and hostility. And whatever he felt guilty about or whatever he had done, he accused others of doing. It was pretty impossible to talk to the guy, cause he'd just accuse us for emotional blackmail or manipulating. My sister, and I? We didn't do that stuff… But when he was the victim he never had to feel bad or take accountability. I don't think I can remember him saying sorry to anyone ever. And why? I dunno. I guess he was feeling defensive and scared of being a bad dad or something.