hi total outside party to all this confusing rp/furry(?) drama here
respect to whatever you’ve been through, even just scan reading your posts it does sound horrific and I’m so so sorry, am sure you didn’t deserve to be treated that way. it’s good to air out negative experiences of someone who sounds like a dangerous predator, as well as warn others away from them
meaning what I’m about to say is absolutely not a censorship or silencing tactic btw. am glad you can congregate with others who’ve been hurt in the same way, so you can seek answers and protect others. I’m female who has dealt with male psychosis so I definitely empathise with this instinct and way of coping with trauma
with this being said: would you mind altering the tag and names you use from now? even just with a * or a font tumblr doesn’t pick up, or something?
asking because as an elder protective member of euro football fandom, ik some fans of the Dutch club Ajax AFC (at least one or two of them minors or former SA victims) are getting really confused, upset and triggered as well as annoyed by this drama flooding the tag. I’ve had a several worried and ??? dms about it
we have nothing to do with this and don’t understand it or know what it’s about, yet we’re getting subjected to endless frequent alarming textposts about it due to an unfortunate double-bubble name issue—which ofc isn’t your fault, but is in your power to mitigate with one simple tweak
you seem a decent person with good intentions, so I’m confident that same as me you don’t want any collateral overspill damage
thanks so much for your understanding, and please know I wish you healing, freedom and all the best of luck going forward into this new year where you can leave this behind
I mean, I wouldn't mind it, but due to the nature of this guy(tm) idk what else could be said. This isn't just my tag, y'know? It's for other people who can more accurately be described as his victims to have a voice. I do put a TW at the beginning of my tag. If you have any suggestions, I'd love to hear them.