#chadvice

[kikyozoldyck]

this might b a dumb Q but how do i start calling the person im talking to a cute name? like babe is so cute to me

start out in a fun playful way and see how it plays out

[kikyozoldyck]

mar do u have any advice on managing your time better/stop procrastinating ? obvi you don’t have to answer i just ask because u are smart and sexi

peach sweet baby of course i will help you !! my strategy isn’t revolutionary but it works for me basically i just write down everything i need to do and want to do in the morning and then in the evening i go back over it with another color and annotate what i did/didn’t do. if i did it i mark it with an x but if i didn’t then i mark it with an arrow then i set it as a task for the next day here’s an example of my to do list thing (it’s kind of ugly i know ndjsnsnsn)

[kikyozoldyck]

If I can add on, I’m also very uneasy with hugging and holding in general so do I just wait until it happens ? Like I think it might be weird to bring up in a text but I think I might chicken out in person (I’m sorry for bombarding you with these btw)

you’re not bothering me! i think you should definitely tell your partner that as soon as possible. whenever you feel comfortable just ask if your partner has a moment to talk with you over text and bring it up. it’s definitely not something you want to hold on to

[kikyozoldyck]

DO U HAVE FIRST DATE TIPS IVE LEGIT NEVER BEEN ON A DATE AND LIKE WHAT IF I RUN OUT OF THIS TO TALK ABOUT OR WHAT IF THEY TRY TO KISS ME IVE NEVER KISSED ANYONE AHHHH WHAT DO I DO

1. plan ahead and go in feeling confident and relaxed (if i’m going to a restaurant, i look up the menu and pick out what i want ahead of time because im a picky eater. if i’m going to a museum, i like to look up some fun facts to share with in case the conversation stalls. basically you should do whatever it takes to make yoursef feel prepared and at ease)

2. dress cute and comfortable (keep it simple. you don’t want to go all out on a first date. wear something nice, but not too nice. basically you dont want to look like you’re trying too hard even if you are. but tbh if you like wear high heels on a daily basis then go for it as long as youre not like going hiking on your date

3. let someone know where you’re going !!!!!!!!! (always text or call a friend or family member to tell them where you’re meeting your first date what that person’s name is and when you expect to be home. that way, you know someone has your back and can keep an eye out for you at the end of the night ++ you can follow up with your friend to gush or vent about how the date went)

4. be yourself. (the first date is your introduction to a love interest so it’s normal to be nervous or excited about it don’t let those feelings trip you up though being authentically and unapologetically yourself is always going the best way to go on a date. youre going on the date because they like YOU)

5. Try to avoid serious or controversial conversation topics. (some people say you should never ever talk about exes or politics on a first date. personally i don’t think it’s all that cut and dry but youre not going on the date with me so here are some conversation topics that you SHOULD bring up on a first date)

[kikyozoldyck]

Hi queen, the guy I’m dating rn (fairly new relationship) is super sweet. I’ve heard from sources that he got a massive d*ck and I’m like so curious but I’m not ready to have sex but I WANT TO KNOW

ask for a dick pic. we’re in a pandemic so sexting is sort of the new normal. 

[kikyozoldyck]

@ scared anon, i carry a knife and pepper spray ^^ but i've also taken a self-defense class.

alice is right anon. i carry mace and a personal alarm keychain (i haven’t needed to use them gbless but they make me feel better) but i’ll link u to the amazon pages bc they’re both pink and i think they’re both really cute

[kikyozoldyck]

What fitness app and is it free? I am fat and curious.

tbh anon i have a LOT of fitness apps

i currently use lifesum (for macro/consumption calculation and tracking), fitbod (for workout tracking), 30 day fitness (for working out at home) and get running (for my runs)

lifesum & 30 day fitness are lowkey expensive but tbh loseit works better for weight loss !! also i REALLY recommend using get running if you want to start running it’s literally the BEST running app out there and it’s free

[kikyozoldyck]

I just feel so bad because everyone else abandoned them when things got bad and they’re convinced I’ll do the same so I’m scared to. Sorry for bothering you with this I’m just stressed

you’re not bothering me. it sounds harsh because you’re a nice person. im not telling you to abandon them im just saying that its perfectly healthy to take a step back from a situation thats causing you stress. you can still talk to them but set a boundary where you two only talk about their problems for x amount of time and then you move on. you need to be mindful of your own mental health.