Changes are chances
We are never the change. Though our life time we will have different tastes and opinions as we grow older.
We get so absorbed in worry of what others think and their reaction to your change, You don’t get a chance to sit down and approve of yourself. We are constantly under pressure of media and models that somehow in our brains we seem to think we got it wrong. We place strong judgement of how ourselves and life is meant to because of those pressures.
For instant: Today I planned to get a hair cut. I say to my love of my life “I am going to get it short” He says to me “Ok, but not a boys haircut” This played on my mind as i was on the train to my local hairdressers. I thought “Well i am a girl i can’t be defined as a guy just because hair cut???” As i debated this topic in my head i understood as i looked around me on that very train that it is no one job to define me but myself! When this clicked i said to my hairdresser what i wanted. its like a short bob but with side bangs at the side to outline my face. As i walked out i kept touching this change wondering if i made the right decision then it hit me as i gave my love a big hug at the night and told him goodnight. I felt like me... this weird whooshing emotion washes over me i stare at my refection. I like the sense of freedom it brings where i don’t have to tie it up every 5 seconds and it is VERY suitable for summer!
Changes can be a present from the future as changes help us grow and learn about ourselves. But the change that should stay the same is to trust yourself! our trust for ourselves get lost within judgement of others. Don’t let it. You owe it to yourself to be you because believe it or not one day it might be too late. Changes are chances that can led to open doors to our next page of life.
I for one, am ready. Are you?