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If Remus had known how much the next day would suck, he might not have joined a gym. His entire body was screaming at him, his muscles stiff and unyielding. He took a dose of paracetamol and had a coffee chaser to wash it down. He hated the taste of paracetamol, especially when it stuck to your tongue instead of going down your throat. He pulled a face, smacking his tongue off the roof of his mouth. He managed to get a few slices of that down before collapsing on his bed again and scrolling through his phone while his painkiller kicked in.
Feeling slightly better, Remus shuffled over to his desk and opened his laptop. He was a copywriter and had a lot of work to get through, though he could pick when he started and when he clocked off. As long as he did a minimum of six hours a day, management kept off his back. It helped that there was an understanding woman in the HR department who understood that he still had bad days and was quite lenient with him. More than once, Mary had stood up for him when someone gave him grief.
“He’s the best worker we have. His work is immaculate, and yes, he’s missed a few days, but he’s never missed a deadline, and if you add up all the extra hours he does throughout the week, they add up to more than anyone else anyway.”
He lost himself in his work, finding it took his mind off his aching body. He stopped when he could no longer ignore the hunger eating away at his stomach. It growled angrily, as though to emphasise this point, when Remus stood up from his computer chair. He stretched his sore body and found he felt better after using a few of the stretches Sirius had shown him the previous day. He sighed as he thought of the beautiful man. He’d had a restless night, dreaming of those icy blue eyes and strong shoulders. The slightly calloused hands helping him into his squat. He’d had to relieve himself more than once, and it still hadn’t helped. He honestly had no idea how he was going to face Sirius again, so he didn’t, choosing, like Peter, to hide under his desk and avoid the problem at all costs.
When one partner repeatedly ghosts, breadcrumbs, is hot and cold, have one foot in and one foot out, out of fear of rejection, vulnerability, commitment or loss of freedom and autonomy, they are considered a runner. When the other partner pushes for communication, connection, and applies pressure to the runner, they are considered a chaser. Chasing can be energetic which includes, constantly mentally ruminating over the runner's actions, last conversation and interaction, imagining scenarios of reconciliation, checking for signs and synchronicities, checking their phone for missed calls or text messages. Constantly talking about the runner to family, and or friends, getting/watching tarot or synastry readings about the runners current actions or the future of the connection, constantly calling and texting even when you get no response or when response is sporadic. This is different from limerence where the connection is imaginary, because the runner and chaser may actually BE in a relationship with one another, regardless of popular opinion, if you have been involved physically, and have emotional attachment to one another even if it is not spoken, it is still considered a relationship, however serious or unserious one or both parties consider it to be. Physical and emotional attachment is still a energetic contract and still valid and the laws of relational karma still apply. Runners may start to chase once they sense the chaser energetically detaching which results in a push pull dynamic that can be neverending if Saturn is in hard aspect in the chart. Runners do not run in every connection they are in, which is why I am not going to apply this to the natal chart. I have post for non committal placements but right now I am focusing on the synastry because different connections bring out different energies in us based off of the aspects the chart. Certain aspects to our planets can invoke either the runner or chaser in us all. I have been on both sides of this. If you feel you are in a runner/chaser dynamic and you are the chaser, it is because your persons rejection may be triggering something within you that has to do with abandonment and trying to rewrite a past story that has happened that we do not want to happen again, but the emotions that it brings up for you is the what really needs to be worked through. If that is not the case they may be triggering how you truly feel about yourself, as you may tie your self worth to how you are treated, or seen by others. You may be chasing approval or have a need to feel chosen to feel valid. For most of us it is both of these things. If you are the runner, the connection to this person may make you feel exposed or vulnerable, the feelings they bring up within you may make you uncomfortable so you may pull away to regain the upper hand or a sense of control. You may have been abandoned yourself and or feel so deeply for the chaser that you fear their abandonment, so you do it first. You may feel unworthy of their love and devotion and it may bring up questions of how worthy you are of being loved. You may have secrets, or things that you are ashamed of or feel like the chaser may judge you for or may not approve of, or leave you for. You may feel like if you keep your distance, you can control the pace, outcome and intensity of the connection. The one thing that the chaser and runner have in common is that they both want: CONTROL. Runner/Chaser dynamics are intense especially if there are oppositions because the energy tends to flip, and the roles reverse where the Chaser becomes the Runner, these are the Breakup to Makeup dynamics. Below are a few of the aspects I have noticed studying countless charts, with this dynamic. Per usual look at the condition of you and your partners charts and their aspects separately before looking at the synastry.
Sun opposite/square Venus
Sun opposite/square Uranus Synastry/Composite
Venus conjunct/opposite/square Pluto
Venus conjunct/opposite/square Lilith
Venus opposite/square Uranus Synastry/Composite
Venus opposite/square Neptune Synastry/Composite
Mars opposite/square Neptune
Mars conjunct/opposite/square Pluto Synastry/Composite
Mars opposite/square Moon
Mars opposite/square Lilith
Mars opposite/square Uranus
Mars opposite/square Saturn
Pluto opposite/square Sun
Uranus 2nd/4th/7th House Synastry/Composite
Moon conjunct/opposite/square Uranus
Saturn 4th/7th/8th House Synastry/Composite
Pluto 7th/8th/12th House Synastry/Composite
Neptune 7th/8th/12 House Synastry/Composite
North Node in the 4th/8th/12th House Synastry/Composite
The majority of runners are not conscious of their behavior and the damage it causes to their person or the connection, they are just reacting and playing their part in the story the stars have written. If they were self aware they would see they are just running from themselves, their own feelings, their own shadow. Usually the chaser stops chasing when they have been triggered to heal what caused them to chase in the first place. That's when the energetic cord snaps and the runner no longer has the same control over the dynamic. The runner always runs back because the intent is never to stay away, it is to ground themselves and regain control. Once that is taken away, they are just left with themselves, the fear of what they ran from in the first place which is abandonment becomes a self fulfilling prophecy. But instead of leaning into what this is triggering and try to heal it, they begin to chase and the chaser who by then is awakened to the toxicity of the runners ways, runs from the connection, if the chaser takes the runner back, the runner will just run again, especially if they have not healed what caused them to run in the first place. They are not coming back because they have finally chosen the chaser or realized how much the chaser or the connection meant to them, they are coming back to feel in control again. If they can win back the chaser this validates that for them. Understand and overstand, it is chess not checkers. It is only a game if two people are playing. To no longer be the pawn you must remove yourself from the board, energetically, mentally, emotionally and physically. A dynamic where you have to wonder where you stand and makes you question your worth is not built to last or sustainable, what it is, is a lesson.
Stay Lifted,
Madison 🕊️✨
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