I have a crush on someone that is impossible to reach. I mean he is one year younger than me but I don’t know, from the beginning of my Sophomore year, we have become friends, we chat a lot in facebook but in person we don’t talk too much, he will just say hi and I would respond too. It was just so easy for me that time but I don’t know what happened to him these days. I heard that he has a girlfriend and based on his post on facebook, those “heartbroken” post, it is pretty obvious that he had a fight with his girlfriend and because of that he became mature, snob and whenever I bump into him or we look into each other, it feels like he is a stranger and I’m just a person he used to chat with. I regret chatting him on facebook, I want to turn back time and instead of be-friend with him on chat, I will talk to him in person so that in this moment I could ask him directly or personally about his life.
Lesson: Most of us girls are shy, we don’t want to initiate the first move because you think your crush might think you’re being flirty and clingy. Based on my experience, I think being too shy can lead your crush to be offended and feel like you don’t want to talk to them or be friend with them. Every time they’re around you run or hide and they might think you don’t want to see their face or don’t want to talk to them. When they say hi and you will just smile and walk away because you’re blushing, they wouldn’t know that and they might think that you don’t want to chit chat with them.
In my experience, the problem is we are both shy and he is the one who is trying to initiate to talk in person and I just smile and walk out without responding hello and ask how they are and now because of my shyness, I’m stuck in my room and play “We Don’t Talk Anymore by Charlie Puth ft. Selena Gomez” trying too hard to stop my tears while listening to that song. :(