May 10
Got told my in-law will be throwing a party the morning AFTER my wedding and my ass is required to attend
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Got told my in-law will be throwing a party the morning AFTER my wedding and my ass is required to attend
oh my fucking god. this seabling vs s.korea shit has me going insane.
the whole thing started over something so dumb. a fansite rule break at that day6 concert in malaysia and instead of just “oops sorry”, it snowballed into straight-up xenophobic/colorist vomit from some knetz. calling sea folks broke, dark-skinned, animal-looking, whatever… like??? the irony when a lot of that “perfect” k-beauty image comes from heavy surgery + filters anywayyyy. and then they wonder why sea siblings are clapping back hard with the suicide rates, birth rates, military service trauma memes, etc. it’s messy on both sides now but like… it didn’t have to escalate to “the entire continent” level beef if the initial response wasn’t so defensive + racist.
as a chinese-singaporean-thai gal,,, this shit FUCKJNG PISSES ME OFF. it’s exhausting because we love the culture, we support the artists, we spend money on the albums/merch/concerts… but then we’re hit with this superiority complex that treats us like second-class asians. like we’re only good enough as fans when we’re quiet + consuming, but the second we exist as equals or call out bullshit, suddenly we’re ‘lesser’. and it hurts extra because southeast asians already deal with so much internal colorism + classism, so seeing it weaponized from another asian country just feels like betrayal. why can’t we just stan without the side of casual racism? why does enjoying k-media have to come with this constant reminder that some ppl over there see us as exotic backups instead of actual humans?
Some people were successful at showing me I'm not important without telling me I'm not important.
Have you ever felt it? I mean, something triggered me today and I realised damn... I was really just an afterthought in high school.
I bet no one there even remembers my name. I bet no one there even knows I still exist anymore. And it just sucks a bit even if I don't care that much.
Oh well, maybe a small part of me still cared? Idk...
Okay then, that old self is gone anyways.
They don't exist in my life now too anyways.
Oh well. I should stop the drama 😂
It's kinda cool too to just poof in people's memories. I'm like a sorcerer cause of that 😂
so um I kinda got blocked by Karl Urban soo those 2 edits are the only two I will be making of them I tagged him and he blocked me on IG I've been feeling really weird about the whole thing just min rant soo no Billy's content from me it sucks but it what is ... not sure if ill remove the edits yet tho
This fandom really needs to try harder when it comes to supporting artists, writers, cosplayers, etc.
Amazing art is made everyday and yet alot of them only get 30 notes and usually it's more likes than reblogs. That's because no one reblogs art they like and that's the problem. If you like it reblog it. Reblogging it supports the artists and spreads it around to more people.
If you're worried about hitting post limit, queue some art. If you're blog isn't meant for reblogging art then make a sideblog, say you made a sideblog, and reblog art from there. Reblogging art only takes one click of a button, it's that's simple and it greatly supports an artist.
We need to support artists in this fandom more.
If you like it reblog it
570 words!
That’s the most productive I’ve been in over a year!
A good day’s work, and I am proud.
rant
man so, there is a Transgender group in my area that hosts a meeting every first thursday of the month for a lot of us in the area to get together and talk politics surrounding the community and just hang out. Well, its part of a bigger LGBT group in the area but this one is strictly a Trans / NB / other gender things group.
One of my good friends ran the group. He did a fantastic job at running it. Well, some old cis bitch decided to take it over. The only reason: her grandson is in the group and doesnt like my friend. She’s also on the board of the bigger LGBT group which i dont fuckin know why because shes FUCKING STRAIGHT AND CIS! wtf is your old ass doing in part of an LGBT group!!
But anyways, my friend is devastated he got kicked from the leader position. its awful seeing him this angry and upset...
but yeah, some cis bitch decided to take over a trans space. WE. DONT. FUCKING. WANT. YOU. HERE! but its like everything in life. Trans people cant even have their own space to just be ourselves without the cis people taking it over.
When the devil couldn’t reach me so he made me stan exo…