I just wanted to send you a quick message to say that questioning if you're trans enough or just like a mistaken cis is a super common part of The Experience.
I first thought I might be trans when I was 13. I swiftly decided that was ridiculous and I was a bad person for trying to claim something like that for myself. I was a faker and horrible for even thinking it. I gatekept myself before I even knew the concept lol. It took SIX YEARS for me to go "no wait I absolutely am" and now I'm even out professionally.
So I guess my point is that to be gentle on yourself because that kind of second guessing is super natural.
Also finally those headcannons are a REVELATION, I love them. I've been subconsciously restricting myself to just my own OCs...no more!
thank you so so so much like you have no idea how much it means to me
everyone has just been really sweet and encouraging and it’s helped me so much. if talking about my hcs helps encourages others in turn like wow! :D I’m really happy to pay it forward and that helps me not feel so weird and bad about it too















