Hi. :) I'm actually in tears as I write this. Ever since fourth grade I've felt uncomfortable with my body, with my breasts, with my shape, with how I was expected to dress and wear my hair. I'm not a she, or a he, a they... I'm a fae... I want to be called fae.. i am fae.. But I'm so scared... So many people dislike pronouns like that and transfolk in general and I'm terrified.. Is it okay..? Am I okay...?
You are okay, and I love you friend. I love your pronouns and your feelings, and I'm not the only one.
You're probably going to encounter a ton of people who will mock and ridicule and antagonize you, but you'll always have people who will love, respect, and appreciate whatever parameters of personhood you hold; dysphoria, pronouns, and gender all included in this. You are okay. Everything about you is okay.
-Nick










