I NEED HELP, I'm A BLACK GIRL AND HAVE BODY ISSUES, I DON'T HAVE A BIG CHEST OR A BUTT AND IT MAKES ME FEEL NOT PRETTY BUT I FEEL OKAY SOMETIMES. no madder what excise I do nothing happens or changes I have very small curves though but they don't stick out and I have hip dips. Will my body change when I turn 18 years old?
I actually had to google what in the hell a hip dip was and I used to be a trainer for track athletes. Look as a guy, nobody cares. I’ve been around the most nefarious vile, evil men, and not one time did I hear anything about a hip dip. You don’t have body issues, you have confidence issues. Believe it or not these fads are not being pushed by guys. They’re being pushed by women. This reminds me of the thigh gap. Then men made fun of it. Because we were like, “who in the hell said we liked this?” We love women with confidence. You could have ass no ass. But if you chill af and cool we are going to love the shit out of you. Everything else is extra. You could have the fattest ass, the juiciest pussy, the biggest boobs, and still get left by someone that has NONE OF THESE. Why? Because nothing beats a confident woman that’s down to Earth. But nobody wants to believe that because it’s too simple. Black, pink, white, purple, brown it doesn’t matter what color you are. CONFIDENCE IS COLORLESS. This is a time you need to build a relationship with yourself. Every morning you wake up tell yourself, “I’m beautiful, I’m sexy, I’m confident, I’m amazing, I’m lovable, and I will be loved.” You need to say this every chance you have. Don’t just say it believe it. Counter every negative comment it comes into your head would a positive comment. Self-love is an everyday battle. You just won’t magically love yourself or your body, this takes time. But ultimately baby girl you place the value upon yourself. If you believe you are unlovable you will become unlovable. What is felt on the inside is seen on the outside. You have to hold yourself to a higher standard baby girl.