#chrishell

[lastgirlsattheparty]

[9w1ft]

uhhhh

[mytvjunk]

Mary: "If this location doesnt work out, Jason has offered us his house to use as a venue for the wedding ceremony"

Romain:

[irenespring]

Selling Sunset is driving me insane (but not anxious insane so that's good I guess)

Like Chrishell doesn't want to hang out with the coworkers who hates her and who she dislikes. And everyone is acting like that's so horrible and something she needs to apologize for. Why the fuck is everyone so obsessed all the time with everyone getting along? Is it an nt thing? Are nt people so used to everyone getting along with them they blow a fucking gasket at boundaries? Sometimes people don't get along, it's no reason to start World War III.

Chrishell seems like she's in a lose-lose position here: Either she stays and fakes getting along with Nicole and gets blasted for being "fake" or only doing it Jason (like when she apologized), or she sets up boundaries and removes herself from the situation, and she is accused of bullying. But avoiding someone who you know is only going to start a fight with you is the responsible, considerate thing to do. It's the only way all the other people aren't caught in the crosshairs.

This reminds me of the time at a summer camp where my queer friend group and I politely told a homophobic girl that we didn't want to have lunch with her unless she stopped doing things like equivocating over whether gay people are human and calling trans people "objectively defective" (this was after multiple attempts to cordially educate her, even though that shouldn't have been our responsibility)---and then we were brought in front of the counselors and yelled at for "ostracizing" her and bullying.

SOMETIMES PEOPLE DON'T WANT TO HANG OUT. THAT'S HEALTHY. DON'T FORCE PEOPLE WHO DON'T LIKE EACH OTHER TO PRETEND EVERYTHING'S GREAT. NO GOOD WILL COME OF IT.