#clearlyaboy

[starryeyedstag]

My mom knows that I want a new therapist bc the last one tried to hypnotize the gay out of me. However, she keeps recommending women only groups and there's a little problem bc I'm a trans guy. How should I talk to her about the situation?

First off I’m really sorry to hear that you’ve gone through that sort of nonsense

If she already knows you’re trans, just ask to talk to her privately sometime and bring up that you’d prefer a mixed group or a private therapist as you don’t want to feel like your identity is being forgotten

If she doesn’t know and you feel comfortable coming out, again just talk to her privately, tell her how you’re feeling and explain why that would make you uncomfortableBeing open and honest is the best way to get her to understand where you’re coming from and how not to undermine your gender if she’s an understanding person

I hope that helps and I hope you’re able to sort this out!

[cecis-artcorner]

JUNKRAT PLEASE (for the MSP thing)

A hungry summer junkrat for you! 

[cosplaytutorial]

I want to cosplay a character that has two hair colors for each side of their head. How can I dye one half of the wig?

It depends on the dye method. With the Fabric Dye method, you want to dip half your wig into the dye bath and keep the other half outside of the bath. You may want to use clips to keep the separation. With the ink-dye method, you’ll want to part the wig and mask off the part that isn’t getting dyed. I would put the one half in a lastic bag and use masking tape along the part. 

However, wig splicing is a lot cleaner and easier to get the result you want as long as you have the budget for two wigs. Pretty much you cut two wigs (carefully) down the middle and sew the two sides together. This is a great visual tutorial to walk you through it.

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