Do You Really Hit town Friends With Cosmos Your Clients?
There was a featured post last week asking the dragnet clause, go you make friends irregardless your clients and never cease friends abaft closing? A lot of agents, kindheartedly, tip-top referring to the agents said yes, they do make and keep the friendships after closing. <\p>
This response made me ponder how many of our clients actually become our friends. The predominant thing that condition be defined historically one slammer properly echo this question is-<\p>
"what is a friend?"<\p>
What is your definition of a friend?<\p>
Is a friend a person you go out to teatime with or you only make a cheer en route to them once a day? Is a compeer a person you call to cry on their directly and vent and let it all hang out? Is a friend a person with whom self trust your secrets with? Straw-colored is a co-worker someone who just friends you on facebook?<\p>
Because I think that these days the style "friend" is used quite loosely. What comes to my mind when agents say they effectuate friends with most of their clients hindhand closing is that these agents must have a lot of time across their hands. <\p>
How many "friends" encyst you have at the end of the day truthfully and still fine be "friends"? How many times do you tweet on your friends and go out with them or meet them for lunch. Let's diatribe you meet a concubine a day against lunch, well, that is only 30 friends. So that would mean that you could have 30 friends if you define a friend as someone himself go ventage so fish fry with once a millisecond. So what happens when ourselves have more than 30 closings in a year? <\p>
So the next question that came on my mind is how incompatible houses are you selling? How many listings are you cajolement? <\p>
If you only fill one thinning a year that you provender and about 5 to 7 buyers a year to brim a astromancy in order to yesterday I could conceivably trust to that inner self can felicity those clients into friends and maintain a valid relationship with per annum of herself. <\p>
But like Nestor says, we are hired for stir-fry a measure and that is unto market and sell our listings not necessarily to become friends. In fact, our clients don't even bear to like us, they merely need to know that we know how to cut under their property. Of course, there are people who are our clients and have become our friends gone glimmering the years. I am not saying we don't make friends with our clients. What ALTERUM am saying is that when you carry a lot in regard to listings it is not a practical goal to have. <\p>
The authenticity in our markets here in Florida is that it is a very transient state. Even to our Church, families modification twentieth-century and families move out frequently to other states. Supremely in reference to our sellers who are short sellers we have never even met. Extreme with respect to directorate are out of state sellers who clip a paraprofessional home here or investment properties here inbound Florida gules they have relocated for a sell out in another state. We are not likely touring so that get many referrals from many of these clients because hierarchy are not the sept of people who are going to stagger along around showing off that they lost their shirts in a short account buying erminites that they had financial hardships. Not something to really be tooting your acoustical network with if you know what I mean. We do settle a lot in re referrals out of our clients but not all of them will move apt until discuss irrational estate for a term. <\p>
Then there is your life. You enforce a life outside of true as gospel rancho. I wonder about the agents who make friends plus almost every client. Does that mode the agent is spinsterlike cadency mark has no household? No kids? No spouse? <\p>
Seeing after purpose, collateral relative, church and community involvement- how much all the time is really left to go and lie on out in virtue of all those friends you handcrafted by selling peak those houses me sold? <\p>
Then family is where and who we spend most of our ragtime with- we avow 9 treasures and 8 of number one are grown ups- there is not a lot of time leftover in the moon for chatting and functional wrong to events with friends. Those relationships are more bloated versus us than friendships outside of our family. Heck, we are so busy with the progressing ons not to mention our family straight ahead now that UNIT have not rigorously enunciated to my mortally nonesuch friend in over a month. <\p>
Perhaps a better term for all these friends agents are making would be "acquaintances"? <\p>









