#cloverhighfive

[inacatastrophicmind]

✨💚💙send this to the ten people you’re happy to see every time they pop up on your dash/notif and wish them a good day🌟💚💙

Thank you

[minnies-advice]

Crepes or pancakes???

[loserchildhotpants]

re: how to be a good friend to the forever single person... I think you're doing fine. Just listening is probably the only thing you can do anyway. Because you can't be the one to offer romantic validation, there is nothing you can say or do that will help. There is nothing wrong with ppl, it's just... how life goes. I'm nobody's type. It's just a fact by now (well into my 40's). Any opinion feels like trying to fix me or pity for me. I hate both. And ppl trying to fix me did send me in a very unhealthy mental spiral that was hard to undo. So, if I complain, I just need someone to empathize the best they can, and if I don't complain, just don't bring it up. I didn't, so don't go and make up a pity party from thin air pls. So... just be there, be kind, do what you do, it's good.

ofc there's nothing wrong w u!! or anyone else for that matter!! im so sorry anyone ever made u feel that way, that's terrible. this does help me, though, thank you. in recent years i've been unlearning that impulse to help w 'problems,' and now, when a friend vents to me, i default to like, 'do you wanna talk in a way that's like, problem-solving oriented, or you just wanna be in your feels?' and i just do whatever the person im talking to wants

i totally get that sometimes folks don't want 'solutions' (especially when nothing is Broken), and sometimes it's not like... a problem, but maybe a grievance or something that irritates at times, like literally anything else in life. sometimes it's helpful just to talk abt it, i get it

this was helpful! thank you! <3

[regardinghollanov]

the cockles content tonight was delicious. consider my crops watered and my skin cleared.

I’m happy I was able to help!

[licieoic]

Concerning your nsfw piece, I have a question. Why choose to paint a shirt (with all the freakin folds and shadows) when it would have been easier to paint skin and freckles (I think?????)? Thanks. Also, thanks for that painting. I like your lovely art, but this hit me like a freight train in the best of ways.

Surprisingly, fabric is a lot more forgiving to depict than skin. With skin, you have to keep in mind all the correct muscle groups and bones underneath. Fabric can fold any which way pretty much and looks good as long as you get the shadows right. Also, (the simpler answer) I work from reference and the body I used was wearing a shirt. ^_^

[bluefirecas]

I feel when ppl list moments Dean was flirty or awkward with men they forget to list a convo Dean had with a policeman (while passing for an FBI agent). But I can't for the life of me remember what ep - but it's later years. If you do, I would very politely ask if you feel like giffing it? 😊💜 thanks!!

are you talking about the spn 4x06 - yellow fever conversation? I ALSO DONT KNOW BUD *sigh*

DO ANY OF YALL KNOW!!!!!!!! HELP US OUT!!!

[clairenatural]

jussy? I missed something.

be glad you did (if u really want to know it started here)

[idjit]

Dean in 15x09 - requested by: @cloverhighfive​