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Slowly cracking the code on how to sugar via Yelp🔥

Will update in a week or so after testing it out a little more!

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Just made a sb instagram!

My account is : sp0iledlagirl ♥️

I’ll only be accepting SW’s and will be making the majority of my updates on there from now on.....

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One of my new found hobbies: Researching high paying jobs that interest me, looking at the minimum requirements, plan on meeting them..then exceeding them💗💅🏽💵

Yes, someone’s dad will be funding my whole life, but I’m going to be my own rich bitch. 💋

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7/11/19

Made it to Vegas!!! Staying at the Venetian this time around, I absolutely love the little suite we’re in. It’s 3:09 and I’m already drunk, when in Vegas 🤷🏽‍♀️

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Does anyone else feel some type of way, when the waiter pours the wine for the man first, and waits for him to taste and approve before pouring your glass..like I ordered this wine...yes he’s paying...but I ordered this shit..

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I’m starting to think my SD who gives me $1200/meet is actually an average joe who saves $1200 to see me. This is the third month in a row I’ve only seen him once a month....

Not complaining, I just find it funny ...

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Resume/Applying for Jobs Advice👩🏽‍💻💅🏽💸

Hey Heauxs, so I know this post isn’t sugar related, but as we all know, having multiple streams of income is only helpful in being a healthy and happy SW.

So after going through about 43 resumes with my supervisor today, I thought I’d drop some knowledge.

Note: Most of this is common sense, also, there are plenty of other helpful tips out there, this is just a list of what I encountered first hand today. These tips may not apply to all jobs, but still, pretty helpful information.

1. DON’T ask for a salary that is too huge for the position, ESPECIALLY if they mention the salary in the job description! (Ex: Our job posting says $55,000/year, there were people asking for $90-120k..those resumes were deleted off the bat)

2. If the job application REQUIRES a resume and a cover letter, do both! Better safe then sorry.

3. If you don’t not have some form of experience in the field you are applying to (preferably over a years worth) you probably won’t get the job

4. Make sure you submit you resume in a way that can be easily read! (One persons resume was getting cut off and another person had color designs, and the words couldn’t be read over the dark patterns)

5. To bounce off of that, limit the amount of patterns and designs you have UNLESS you are applying to a more creative field. If you are not, it is unprofessional.

6. They will google you, and look through your social media... pretty self explanatory what you need to do. Keep it PG13, PG if you can.

I will add more info as I get it. We started with 43, we are now at about 20 resumes (we have yet to review social media). My boss is going over the rest in detail and will likely chop another half, in which I will ask why, and make another post. Then it’s reviewing social media, and finally, interviews.

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When to talk about allowance on dating sites?

This is what works for me. Allowance talk usually goes 1 of 2 ways.

1. IF they have shown themselves to be generous and a quality person from the jump (ie: picking a nice resteraunt, offering/agreeing to pay for travel, expensive house/nice job/etc. when screening, great conversationalist, etc. then, I will wait for the end of the first date or right after they ask for a second date to bring up an allowance. This strategy allows for me to charm a worthy man in person, who’s likely to give me more after meeting, then had I just asked online. (Note: I would say only about 10% of the men I talk to on these sites meet this criteria.)

2. (Majority of my interactions) I just straight up ask within a few messages. Somewhat along the lines of “Hey I think we’re looking for the same things, what were you thinking allowance wise” or “what would you need from me in an arrangement, and what are you able to offer.” Of course more eloquently, but you get the just.

Remember you have this!! Stay strong, don’t settle, take his offer and double it, & if he can’t meet your needs, decline. I know survival sex workers exist, BUT if you can have a vanilla job in your back pocket, DO IT. You’ll be more mentally, and eventually, financially happy, if you’re able to decline low ball offers. Happy sugaring!!

Xoxo 🌹