Please help me I am confused. Look, I like imagine those sex things, kissing, hugging and sex,but I enjoy it only in my mind, I don't want it in real life. Also I can fall in love with fictional characters or someone who I can't ever have (actors, singers), but I can hardly fall in love with someone real (friends, classmates). Yes, if there is someone I know and he is attractive I can imagine having sex with him, but only imagine, I don't want it irl. What am I? Is it lithromantic/lithsexual?
If you only have fantasies (which is what it sounds like), you very well could be at least on the asexual and aromantic spectra, if not full on asexual/aromantic. If you think the fantasies count, then maybe lithromantic/lithsexual (or akoiromantic/akoisexual... same meaning, but the terminology is up in the air) works for you, since you only feel it where there will be no reciprocation. Or, if you don't think the fantasies count, then maybe asexual/aromantic is what you want.
-Kiowa
