I’ve been absent for quite some time. I’ve moved states and experienced some high highs and low lows. But now is not the time to start. Fast forward to a few nights ago, I was talking to my friend via Snapchat. She’s having a hard time with family issues, working over-time, AND a grad student. On top of that, she’s paying for all her bills independently. For those who didn’t know, Miami is now rated worst place to live in the USA. She was having trouble with her current boss, but it’s steady work and she needs to money - there is no other option but to keep moving forward until the next opportunity. This is a very temporary job - just to jolt you into something better, nothing more. Through her struggles, we both discovered something that makes so much sense and I’m going to share it with you. Life isn’t just happy and we have lows. Life is a struggle of lows and we choose to be happy within it. Like that saying, “you create your own happiness.” In the most simple form, life can really suck (taxes, bills, education costs, car accidents, or just adulting). You pick and choose who and what your life entails. We’re in school for a big chunk of our lives but that’s not to say we’re reproduced to be like caged rats. We were created so we can feed off each other ideas and build each other stronger from relationships and experiences. It’s okay to be nervous about life, just don’t be afraid. Make your life something you want to be proud of; It’s not always about what you need, it’s about how you can live without the newest products. How you can work when crappy things occur. Creating something new. Am I just blabbering here or am I making any sense?
Point is, just know when life sucks for you, it sucks for everyone else too. We just choose different paths that lead towards happiness. Work with me here. I have a good point and it made me feel more at ease.
On that note, stay tuned and follow me on Instagram @a.cochran to catch whe I post again. Remember you’re not alone and the world is full of cool people too. Give life a chance to lead you into something better.