Honestly I *feel* desperate when I ask for comments (bc I am), but I don't think that about others doing the same - plus, as I keep telling myself, I ain't getting paid for writing so really asking for response *shouldn't* be considered anything but perfectly reasonable. And to specify which kind of response shouldn't either, for the same reasons. I got incredibly tired of hearing complaints about my grammar when I started out writing fanfic a couple years ago, ig. so specifying might've helped
I feel that way too! I’m always worried people think I’m desperate.
Frankly, I’m of the opinion that, with a few exceptions, grammar and spelling errors should just be ignored. I greatly appreciated it when someone corrected me about Untypical Sans being a ‘bakeneko’ as opposed to a ‘bakaneko’ (though, given the translation, I rather like the latter) because that was a pervasive error and something I was honestly ignorant of. I’ve seen the same thing done in English, where using a homophone or something similar resulted in a wildly different meaning. Sometimes an embarrassing one. I think that is okay to correct, done politely and with some praise sprinkled in to lessen the blow.
By and large though? I expect at least a few errors, and when I find them, i just ignore them. I know I don’t work with a Beta, even if I did, our Betas probably aren’t professional editors either. With fanfic, a draft probably gets one or two read-throughs before it’s posted. It’s free and it’s not written by a professional. Spelling errors and grammar errors happen to the most inveterate writer–I’ve certainly found my share of errors in published books! Besides, English grammar in particular is very flexible outside of scientific or academic writing. A lot of the grammar rules we learn that seem so hard and fast in school really aren’t all that hard or fast.
Thank you for your opinion! ^_^