hey uhh for context we're a system so posts about being aroace if we have that is like, still legit. just from a different person.
anyway like how quickly does it take allos to get over a crush? because i get over them extremely quickly after rejectino and it's like, my crushes are like very weak. and im questioning if they're crushes at all? because yeah romantic stuff is cute but i honestly don't care who it's with so long as its someone i have good vibes with. like if a completely platonic friend wanted to do something that is very romance coded i'd be like heck yeah let's do it.
but like, im questioning if im a romance favourable aro. like i can think back to a time where i was like "i'll have a crush on this person" and then i started crushing, then i learned they were in a relationship and then i just stopped. i took that to mean i wasn't actually bi because i wasn't attracted to their gender but like.
idk ive not fomulated my thoughts clearly and i'll put liek aro tags on this post hopefully someone reads it