So, I might as well put this out there.
Decades of watching as unaccountably vicious, well-armed and horrible violence turn out to have American money and weapons and propaganda fueling it have left me looking at Israel the same way. Tthis is the sort of thing that's right out of our imperialist playbook. America abroad has been monstrous for more than a century, and since we tore up our very first treaty (which, tellingly, has the full force of the Constitution) and decided to reduce the ancient and beautiful Middle East to chaos and rubble, the idea that this is the last gasp at relevance of a "realpolitik" strategy that has left millions dead and America hated worldwide is unsurprising. Certainly, none of this is making anything better for Israelis particularly, or Jews generally. The local Israeli-owned coffee house is now prominently selling Palestinian olive oil.
More broadly, from my own traditions' history of failures and shortcomings and sins, I can still find clarity in its successes. My church is Congregationalist—that is, one of the original Puritan churches—and our church is built on stolen land. But we know our history, good and bad, and every service ends with the same exhortation:
Go from here in peace
Strengthen the weak
Support the faint-hearted
Return no-one evil for evil
But in all things, seek the good.
So that is what I will do my humble best to do, regardless of who is weak, who is faint-hearted, or who has done evil. In all things, seek the good. It can be a trying and exhausting ethos, but so is any ethos worth living by.