Hello! Your blog is amazing! What are your thoughts about female lilith conjunct male north node and male pluto trine female venus in synastry? What would the theme of the relationship be?? Thank you in advance!
Lilith Conjunct North Node in Synastry
This particular aspect indicates that your meeting was probably fated. North node is one of the “fate” and deeply karmic centers in our chart. So when someone or something is touching it, they’re going to bring the energy of the planet/asteroid into the mix. With it being Lilith in particular, it indicates a sort of intense and whirlwind vibe. The vibe is sort of “tower” like. It feels a bit like getting struck by a thunderbolt. Your world goes full tilt, then comes to an abrupt halt. With it being in hard aspect, the energy feels a bit jarring. What two people feel for here is an intense feeling of recognition between each-other. You feel like this person is “yours” so to speak. If you do end up in a sexual or physical relationship, two people will/can get addicted to it. It will feel like a soul tie. This person may make you do things you never thought you’d do with anyone. Since North node is about lessons, trajectory in life and karma, the lesson here is working through Lilith’s pain. From there you find your true self and path in life. This particular aspect, though not as harsh as perhaps a square or opposition still indicates that the road will be torturous, angsty, and full of lots of drama and passion. Why? Because this is Lilith we’re talking about.
In addition, the north node is where some of the most uncomfortable lessons we need to learn play themselves out. You know what they say about old habits- they die hard. So this push pull of wanting and being forced to grow can leave two people exhausted. Especially the north node person in this aspect. When this occurs, one or both people can have a tendency to fall back on old habits. Fear can cause the north node person to be withholding, distant or cold because of their fear of the connection and what it makes them face. Things with Lilith always feel a bit taboo. So be sure not to bring too much intensity too fast with each other so as to not make things burn out. This particular aspect indicates the North Node person’s partner [Lilith] is constantly triggering these feelings while bringing in their own darkness and complications through Lilith’ influence. Lilith contacts, even connected to the north node do not typically bode well for longevity. You want to see Saturn to see if things really have the potential to last. However, this IS a placement where people will be significant in our lives. Look at the sign and house placement Lilith and the north node are in to see exactly how and where the lessons/affects will play out. Enjoy the aspect but take care not to let the shadow-side of it consume you.