#conscious uncoupling

[farewell-to-lorien]

Rather than define the value of our relationships by the overly simplistic question ‘How long did it last?’ that we instead begin to ask questions like ‘What wisdom have I gained?’ and ‘What have I learned about love that I can now apply moving forward?’

Katherine Woodward Thomas, Conscious Uncoupling

[vvvitch]

conscious uncoupling

ee cummings "i carry your heart with me (i carry it in" // daniel gerhartz "compassion" // regina spektor "samson" // hozier "francesca" // bon iver "perth" // searows "walk me home" // federico garcia lorca "sonnet of the wreath of roses" // danny schmidt "this too shall pass" // patd "folkin around" // waxahatchee "swan dive" // sanna wani "sorrow is a promise"

[thominyourside]

I'd do anything to

Say we'll look back at this and laugh

You swore you wouldn't but you

You still have time to take it back

Just take it back

[aceofvase]

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[thehalfwaypost]

[unrelievableitch]

Pool Kids // Conscious Uncoupling

So here we are on this stupid couch again I never wanna see you lift the corners of your mouth again Oh, I would pay to see the look in your eye oh You've got a lot of nerve to be asking me why

Get out of my house We've got nothing left to talk about And I'm not acting out of spite You just couldn't play your cards right

[allthesepurplelights]

is entanglement gonna be the new conscious uncoupling?

[liamfixthis]

"I'm going through a divorce but that's ok because I'm healing and letting myself nourish myself the way I need and want to and I'm not going to focus on other people's reactions because I'm tired of feeling some fear of judgement because I decided to put myself first" -my current title for my autobiography But also hi all, I've just been keeping this inside because I really don't know the right way to talk about it. People seem to want me to be more upset and more depressed. But the truth is I made a big decision a few months ago and I feel so much relief. I feel...my light has been renewed. I'm taking time to nurture myself, to allow myself the space to accept love and affection, from myself and others. I am of course going through the ups and downs of the entire experience. Ive cried in public about as much as I have since the day after the election, so I am just going with my feelings. I am being present. I'm trying my best to not think about the judgement others want to pass on me bc their opinions are out of my control. Thank you for respecting my decision-I don't look back at my marriage or relationship over the past nine years with regret, but I know it is time for us to go our own ways and grow as individuals.