Hi sorry if you've answered this before but what are the flags in your profile picture?
omg!!!! I've actually been waiting for someone to ask this one for so long ajhsdfgsjdhfbsjbh
Alright-! So, let's ignore how some people would consider this cringe, but I use a LOT of labels, anything that fits. I had a xenogender hoard before I started only calling myself xenogender and then non-xenic gender alignments followed in and... Well, so, both my orientation and gender are sorta- expansive
SO! I wanted labels that could encompass that!
The flags on my profile picture are tulipian and stellifluix!
Tulipian (links to coining post) just means someone who is mspec, monospec and aspec all at once. I'm pan, I'm omni, I'm aroace, I'm angled aroace, I'm gray-aro, I'm aegosexual I'm gay, I'm enbisapphillean, I'm a lot of stuff at once... But Tulipian just takes all of those things and fits them into a simple word and it feels so right!
Stellisifluix is basically "the same", it is a subset of Constellinisian, which applies when you feel like your genders are arranged as if it was a constellation. I used to mostly call myself bigender cause my genders felt like they arranged themselves in "two big groups" and it felt correct, but then it started being more like them all together in a big shape, constellation style, and Constellinisian felt so right! Stellisifluix is the fluix (fluid + flux) version of it, there's fluidity and there's fluctuation for sure!
Not ashamed to say I organize a lot of these labels in diagrams of all things
As you can see, I am A Lot Of Things, but being able to shorten it to just "Tulipian Stellisifluix Starboy" feels right and correct and I love how it makes me feel :3
I also have a Tulipian pin I made! (colors look better irl but it is sorta faded so I will remake it and make a Stellisifluix one too)
yes it's cringe, but I'm free ajhsbdsjdhfb, I know some people dislike using many labels but for me personally, it's extremely euphoric!
















