#corny tag

[longeyelashedtragedy]

jaykulina liked your post “Y’ALL OMFG THE LADY CORNELIA’S NAME IS ACTUALLY CORNELIA”

i would like to take the time to remind the jury that when i was a teenager cornelia was my favorite name and i had a rich bisexual OC named cornelia

[longeyelashedtragedy]

These Are The Last Eyes You See Before You Descend Into Hell

[longeyelashedtragedy]

if a Jorset is photographed in b&w, is it still a Jorset?

[longeyelashedtragedy]

When basti gave a shoutout to “Cornelia von Talermark” at the last show I was all “Tell me her exact words” lmao

[amiquietenough]

hii i saw ur tags abt the asexuality thing and honestly as someone with similar experiences it's either just masturbation, open/poly relationship, or accepting the incompatibility and moving on. it can suck soo much if/when it gets frustrating because incompatibility is so hard to get over. it's like you love them but it's just not working. hope u guys come to a working solution <3

Hii thank you for your message <3

I agree, those are the options I see as well. We've tried being in an open relationship but that also opens a whole other can of issues so that's also off the table, at least for now.

As you say, it can be really difficult/frustrating, I think even more so for my partner since they get told by society(tm) that there's something wrong with them/they are lacking something (which I absolutely do not see that way), whereas I as the "normal one" get told to just break up with them which is also yeah...not necessarily great advice imo.

For now we are still in a figuring things out stage where we are trying to find intimacy in different ways and I just masturbate. It's obviously not a perfect solution, but we're also trying to keep in mind that identities and needs/wants are fluid things. This is not me saying my asexual partner will be "fixed" one day or anything like that (although they do say that things like more therapy or transitioning might change their sex drive), more like I will probably become less horny as we grow older/ we might change our minds about poly relationships etc. There's so many things that could change at some point, and for now, I'll love them through it. We're not married yet but I still promised to be with them through difficult times so that's what I'll do <3

Thanks again for your kind words and for giving me the opportunity to ramble about this, having it written out like that really helped me to put things into perspective :)

[taylortruther]

Oh Rae! I am so happy for you and your BF. Can you share what are Taylor's love songs that you would put on a playlist for your new relationship? When I met my fiancé I listened to Afterglow and Daylight alllllllll the time (it was a happy but difficult time!)

afterglow and daylight is a pretty rough but beautiful way to describe your relationship! what other songs do you associate with it now?

i actually have a lil tswift playlist for this purpose and so far we've got: cowboy like me, delicate, all of the girls you loved before, and hits different, all of which have a specific feeling or moment attached. but i'd also add snow on the beach (because of that line about "it's fine to fake it til you make it, til you do, til it's true"), call it what you want, and you are in love :')

however, the song i relate to this relationship most is actually a michelle branch song called you get me. it's an oldie but it's got this line: "i am all you want / and they? they just read me wrong" which is just so cute and also corny.

also, thank you for saying that and for asking this question!!

[longeyelashedtragedy]

Y’ALL OMFG THE LADY CORNELIA’S NAME IS ACTUALLY CORNELIA

[longeyelashedtragedy]

Fuck 'em Up Lady Cornelia