The Career Advice More Black Women Deserve to Hear...
Because working hard was never the whole story.
Working hard isn’t enough. Make your work visible.
Many of us were raised with some version of work twice as hard. There is value in excellence, but quietly outperforming everyone while assuming recognition will eventually arrive isn’t a career strategy. Black women need to know how to document results, communicate impact, ask for advancement and make sure decision-makers understand what we contribute.
Doing good work and knowing how to build a good career are two different skills.
For Black women, that distinction matters. We may also be navigating being one of few Black women in the room, assumptions about our competence, complicated standards around professionalism, unequal access to influential networks, pressure to code-switch, the expectation to remain agreeable, and the exhausting little workplace politics nobody put in the employee handbook.
But this isn’t another article telling Black women that the workplace is terrible and everything is stacked against us.
We know discrimination exists.
We also have careers to build.
So let’s talk about strategy.
Let’s talk about money.
Visibility.
Relationships.
Boundaries.
Negotiation.
Knowing when to leave.
And perhaps most importantly, building a professional life that gives you choices.
Because the career advice Black women deserve shouldn’t simply teach us how to survive work. It should help us build lives beyond it.
Working Hard Isn’t Enough. Make Your Work Visible.
Many Black women were raised with some version of:
You’ll have to work twice as hard.
For generations, excellence was understood as both an achievement and a form of protection. If your work was undeniable, perhaps nobody could question whether you belonged.
There is wisdom in taking your craft seriously.
There is considerably less wisdom in believing your work will always speak for itself.
It won’t.
Your manager has other employees. Their manager has other priorities. Projects blur together. Leadership changes. People forget who contributed what.
Meanwhile, the coworker who confidently explains his contribution to the project may become associated with its success while you’re quietly sitting there thinking, Well, everyone knows what I did.
Do they?
Professional visibility doesn’t mean becoming obnoxious or turning every team meeting into your personal awards ceremony.
It means learning to communicate your value.
Keep a running record of:
* Projects you’ve completed
* Revenue you’ve generated or protected
* Costs you’ve reduced
* Processes you’ve improved
* Problems you’ve solved
* Clients you’ve retained
* Positive feedback
* Leadership responsibilities
* Presentations you’ve delivered
* Certifications and training
* Measurable results
Call it your career wins document.
Update it throughout the year rather than trying to remember twelve months of accomplishments the night before your performance review.
And when appropriate, communicate those accomplishments.
Instead of:
“I’ve been working really hard this year.”
Try:
“Over the past year, I led X project, improved X process and helped the team achieve X result. I’d like to discuss what progression into the next level could look like.”
Same woman.
Different strategy.
Your work matters.
Learning how to communicate the value of that work matters too.
Stop Confusing Being Indispensable With Being Valued
There’s a dangerous compliment competent women receive at work:
“I don’t know what we’d do without you.”
Cute.
Now let’s check the compensation.
Being needed can feel like recognition.
Sometimes it is.
Other times, it means you’ve quietly accumulated responsibilities that should belong to several employees.
You’re training the new hires.
Fixing everyone else’s mistakes.
Taking notes during meetings.
Organizing team events.
Answering questions outside your role.
Helping your manager prepare presentations.
Mentoring junior employees.
Handling the difficult client because “you’re so good with people.”
And because you’re capable, you keep doing it.
Eventually, you’ve become essential to keeping everything running.
Yet when a leadership opportunity opens? Somehow you’re still the person helping the new leader get settled.
That’s when competence has become a trap.
Periodically audit your responsibilities.
Ask:
Is this work developing me, exposing me to decision-makers, building a valuable skill or positioning me for advancement?
Some tasks simply need to be done. Every responsibility won’t transform your career.
But if you’re consistently performing work above your level without corresponding recognition, authority or compensation, it’s worth addressing.
Being valuable should create opportunity.
Not simply more work.
You Need Mentors. You May Also Need Sponsors.
Mentorship gets plenty of attention.
Sponsorship deserves more.
A mentor helps you think through your career.
A sponsor advocates for you when you’re not in the room.
A mentor might tell you:
“You should apply for the director position.”
A sponsor might tell the hiring leader:
“Leah should be considered for this. I’ve seen her work, and she’s ready.”
That distinction is enormous.
Many career opportunities are influenced long before a job listing appears.
Someone gets recommended.
Someone gets invited onto a high-visibility project.
Someone is introduced to leadership.
Someone’s name keeps coming up.
You want people in your professional ecosystem who know your work well enough to speak about it.
That doesn’t mean shamelessly befriending executives because you want something from them. Humans can usually detect transactional networking, and nobody enjoys being treated like a walking LinkedIn connection.
Build real professional relationships.
Do excellent work with people.
Stay connected to former colleagues.
Ask thoughtful questions.
Attend industry events.
Participate in professional organizations.
Offer value when you can.
Maintain relationships when you don’t need anything.
And don’t assume your mentors or sponsors must look like you.
Black women absolutely benefit from relationships with other Black women who understand experiences that may require no explanation.
But your professional network should also cross departments, seniority levels, industries and backgrounds.
You need community.
You also need reach.
Your Salary Deserves Research, Not Gratitude
Black women are allowed to be grateful for an opportunity.
We’re also allowed to ask what it pays.
These ideas are not enemies.
Before accepting an offer or negotiating compensation, research the market.
Look at:
The role.
Industry.
Geographic market.
Years of experience.
Required skills.
Company size.
And remember that compensation isn’t only salary.
Depending on the job, total compensation can include health insurance, retirement matching, bonuses, equity, paid time off, flexible work arrangements, tuition assistance, professional development funds and other benefits.
Sometimes an offer with a slightly lower salary has substantially better benefits.
Sometimes “great benefits” are being used to distract from an under-market salary.
Do the math.
And when you negotiate, you don’t need to deliver a TED Talk about why you’re deserving.
Be prepared.
Be professional.
Be specific.
Something as simple as:
“Based on my experience, the responsibilities of the position and the market range for comparable roles, I was hoping we could discuss a base salary closer to $X.”
Then stop talking.
Silence feels approximately seventeen hours long during salary negotiations. It isn’t. Let them respond.
And if you’re uncomfortable with money conversations, practice them before you need them.
Financial confidence is a skill.
Skills improve with repetition.
You Don’t Have to Become Less Black to Become More Professional
Professionalism matters.
So does recognizing that the definition of “professional” has not always been culturally neutral.
Black women have spent generations navigating expectations surrounding our hair, names, speech, clothing, personalities and even facial expressions.
Sometimes the message is explicit.
Other times, it’s subtle.
Your natural hairstyle is suddenly “bold.”
Your direct communication becomes “intimidating.”
Your passion becomes “aggressive.”
Your confidence somehow needs “softening.”
Meanwhile, identical behavior from someone else is interpreted as leadership.
This doesn’t mean every piece of workplace criticism is discrimination. Sometimes feedback is valid, and maturity includes being able to hear that without automatically becoming defensive.
But maturity also means developing enough discernment to recognize patterns.
Ask yourself:
Is this feedback specific?
Is it actionable?
Are other employees held to the same standard?
Have I heard similar feedback from multiple credible people?
Is the criticism about my actual performance or someone’s comfort with my personality?
There is a difference between professional development and personality correction.
Know which one you’re being asked to do.
Code-Switching Is More Complicated Than “Just Be Yourself”
“Bring your whole self to work” sounds lovely on a corporate poster.
Reality is more complicated.
In reality, many Black women feel the need to code-switch.
We adjust language.
Tone.
Cadence.
Presentation.
References.
Sometimes even our names.
And the internet tends to discuss this in extremes.
Either code-switching is portrayed as complete self-betrayal, or we’re expected to pretend everyone communicates exactly the same way in every environment.
Neither is particularly useful.
Everyone adjusts communication depending on context.
You probably don’t speak to your CEO exactly the way you speak to your sister at brunch.
That’s social intelligence.
The issue is when adaptation becomes constant self-surveillance.
When you’re monitoring every gesture.
Every facial expression.
Every hairstyle.
Every sentence.
Every emotion.
Because you’re terrified of being stereotyped.
That has a cost.
Learn how to communicate effectively in professional environments.
But don’t confuse effectiveness with erasure.
The goal isn’t to perform a sanitized version of yourself for forty years.
It’s to develop range without losing your center.
Not Every Workplace Deserves the Most Accommodating Version of You
Black women are frequently expected to carry invisible work.
You’re the unofficial mentor.
The culture translator.
The person someone privately asks, “Was what he said offensive?”
The diversity committee volunteer.
The office therapist.
The person expected to make everyone comfortable when conversations about race become uncomfortable.
Then there’s regular workplace emotional labor.
Planning celebrations.
Taking meeting notes.
Helping coworkers navigate personal problems.
Smoothing over conflicts.
Being the dependable one.
None of these things are inherently bad.
Community matters.
Generosity matters.
But generosity without boundaries becomes unpaid labor surprisingly quickly.
Before automatically saying yes, ask:
Does this need to be me?
You can care about your colleagues without becoming responsible for everyone’s experience at work.
And if you’re repeatedly asked to perform duties related to diversity, recruiting, mentoring or employee engagement beyond your actual role, it’s reasonable to discuss how that labor is recognized.
Your kindness is valuable.
So is your time.
Learn to Document Things Before You Need Documentation
This is one of those pieces of career advice that sounds paranoid until the day it saves you.
Keep records.
Not every awkward interaction requires a dossier worthy of federal prosecution. Please continue functioning like a normal person. 😂
But if something concerning becomes a pattern, documentation matters.
Record dates.
What happened.
Who was present.
Relevant emails.
Performance feedback.
Changes in responsibilities.
Conversations about promotions or compensation.
Keep professional documentation factual rather than emotional.
Instead of:
“My manager clearly hates me and sabotaged the meeting.”
Document:
“August 4: During the client meeting, I began presenting the research I’d prepared. Manager interrupted and reassigned the presentation to X. Followed up afterward requesting clarification regarding my role on the project.”
Facts travel better than interpretations.
Most workplace problems won’t require formal escalation.
But when something serious does happen, “I think this has been happening for months” is much harder to act on than a clear record.
Know your organization’s policies.
Know your rights.
And know when something has moved beyond annoying office politics into something that deserves professional or legal guidance.
Build Financial Freedom Alongside Career Success
A prestigious job title isn’t the same thing as financial security. Neither is a six-figure salary. You can earn excellent money and still have very little flexibility if your lifestyle consumes all of it.
Career growth and financial growth should happen together.
As your income increases, learn about:
Emergency savings.
Retirement accounts.
Employer matching.
Credit.
Insurance.
Taxes.
Investing.
Debt management.
Estate planning as your assets grow.
Lifestyle inflation.
You don’t need to master everything in one weekend.
Start learning.
Use qualified financial professionals and credible educational resources when decisions become technical or specific to your circumstances.
The larger point is simple:
Your paycheck should help build a life that eventually gives you leverage.
An emergency fund can mean leaving a terrible workplace without immediately panicking about rent.
Retirement savings can mean future independence.
Good credit can expand your options.
Investments can create wealth beyond labor.
Money isn’t the entire point of a career.
But pretending money doesn’t matter is a luxury most women cannot afford.
Leaving Isn’t Always Failure. Sometimes It’s Strategy.
Not every job you leave needs to be toxic. You don’t need an evil boss, a dramatic resignation, a discriminatory incident, a complete mental breakdown.
Sometimes you’ve simply learned everything the position can teach you.
That’s enough.
Maybe advancement is limited.
Maybe compensation hasn’t kept pace.
Maybe your priorities changed.
Maybe you want a different industry.
Maybe you need flexibility.
Maybe you want to return to school.
Maybe you’re ready to build something of your own.
Or maybe you just don’t want to work there anymore.
Adults are allowed to change direction. Before leaving, think strategically:
What skills do you want next?
What salary are you targeting?
What kind of environment helps you perform well?
What did this position teach you about what you don’t want?
What relationships should you maintain?
What financial cushion would make the transition easier?
Don’t simply run from something.
When possible, move toward something.
Define Success Before Your Workplace Defines It for You
Corporate culture has a convenient definition of success:
- More responsibility.
- Bigger title.
- Higher salary.
- More people reporting to you.
Repeat until retirement.
That may genuinely be what you want.
It may not.
Perhaps success is…
becoming a vice president.
opening your own practice.
working remotely so you can travel.
earning enough to buy a home.
having a job you enjoy that ends at five o’clock and doesn’t follow you into bed.
becoming the first woman in your family to build substantial investments.
leaving corporate America entirely.
Black women don’t need another narrow standard telling us what our lives are supposed to look like.
We’ve had quite enough of those.
Define ambition for yourself.
There are seasons when you may want to sprint professionally.
There are seasons when family, health, faith, relationships, caregiving or simply enjoying your life may become more important.
Your priorities can change without your ambition disappearing.
What Do You Actually Do About It?
Naming workplace realities without offering Black women tools would be useless.
So here’s where strategy begins:
- Build a professional network before you need one.
Don’t wait until layoffs are announced.
Stay connected.
- Keep your résumé current.
Update it every few months.
- Maintain your career-wins document.
Numbers are particularly useful.
“Managed social media” tells us very little.
“Increased organic social traffic 38% over six months” tells a story.
- Learn the business beyond your job description.
Understand how your company makes money.
Who makes decisions.
What departments influence yours.
What skills are becoming valuable.
Business literacy makes you more strategic.
- Find people who will tell you the truth.
Not every mentor should simply tell you you’re amazing.
You need people who will tell you when your résumé is weak, your interview answer is rambling, you’re underselling yourself or you’re not ready for the role yet.
That’s mentorship too.
- Develop transferable skills.
Companies disappear.
Industries change.
Technology evolves.
Transferable skills protect you.
Communication.
Leadership.
Project management.
Data literacy.
Sales.
Negotiation.
Public speaking.
Financial literacy.
Strategic thinking.
Learn things that can travel with you.
- Know when to involve HR.
HR can be an appropriate resource for policy questions, harassment, discrimination, accommodations and workplace concerns, but remember that HR represents the organization.
Be factual.
Understand policy.
Document appropriately.
For serious legal concerns, an employment attorney or relevant government agency may be a more appropriate source of individualized guidance.
- Keep building options.
This might be the most important one:
The more skills, savings, relationships and experience you build, the less trapped you become.
That’s leverage.
Resources Every Woman Should Keep
Career development doesn’t happen in isolation. Build a small library of trusted resources you can return to throughout your career.
Read
The Memo by Minda Harts (career advice specifically for women of color)
We Should All Be Millionaires by Rachel Rodgers (building wealth and negotiating your value)
Lean In by Sheryl Sandberg (leadership and workplace conversations, while recognizing that some perspectives may not reflect every woman’s experience)
Listen
Choose podcasts hosted by experienced recruiters, career coaches, economists, or financial professionals rather than relying solely on career advice from social media.
Learn
Take advantage of employer-sponsored training, professional certifications, webinars, conferences, and mentorship opportunities whenever possible.
Your career is one of the few investments that can continue paying you for decades.
Your Assignment
Before another week disappears into meetings and emails, give your own career thirty intentional minutes.
1. Research your market value.
Look up current compensation ranges for your role, location, experience level and industry.
2. Start your Career Wins document.
Write down at least five accomplishments from the past twelve months. Add numbers wherever possible.
3. Look at your retirement account.
Know what you’re contributing and whether your employer offers a match. If you don’t understand something, put it on your list to research through a credible financial source.
4. Reach out to one professional relationship you’ve neglected.
Not because you need something. Just reconnect.
5. Ask yourself one uncomfortable question:
If nothing about my current job changed for the next three years, would I still want to be here?
Don’t panic if the answer is no.
Information isn’t an emergency.
It’s simply information.
And now you can decide what to do with it!
Xoxo,
The Black Feminine Society 💋
Creating space for Black women to live beautifully, grow intentionally and define womanhood for themselves.
My (subjective) thoughts on how to survive corporate hell while being younger than 30
I'm 27 and I've been working in corporate office job since I was 23 and I have some advice for any youngster out there feeling unsure if they can even make it in office corporate jobs while being younger than 40.
Don't reveal info about yourself. Craft a superficial version of yourself you can share with peers. Pick a hobby or two and repeat the same speech about what you do for fun. Points if you do something people would remember - everyone says sports and/or traveling. Say something original, but safe.
Your company is not your family. You don't owe them a minute more or less than what says in your contract. You are not less if you refuse to work unpaid extra hours. If they demand that of you, get that in writing and take that shit straight to HR.
Know your rights. If you have paid time off, you are entitled to those days off. I'm european so I have a lot of them, and my company is ALWAYS asking me if "I'm sure I can leave my team down for so long". Bitch I can take the days off whenever I want, is my right. The fact that I'm not taking them in the busiest times is a courtesy.
Be careful with what you say. Everyone will be nice, but not everyone is your friend. Some people would sell you for a potato chip, and finding out who would is vital for your survival. (Hint: if someone spills tea about other people to you, they will spill YOUR tea to other people).
Offices are just like high school. Rumors can and will spread like wildfire.
Another "high school" office cliché: cliques. Yes. Same dynamics will form and identifying them will make things easier. My favorite clique to observe is the people that are shooting for the stars and are always around the Biggest Boss licking their shoes. They will also be the first to speak about how a company project improves their personal life because their personal life and work life is one and the same and they ADORE the company.
Being young can play to your advantage. You are fresh and new, and most of the corporate toxic behaviors won't apply to you by default - but Watch Out, they will also underestimate you and dismiss your opinions. Is a constant battle and a delicate dance.
You Will Be Adopted. That's fact. Be quick to learn who exactly is trying to put you under their wing, and if you are comfortable with that dynamic. It mostly depends on what kind of career you want to make in the company - want to climb higher? Stick with the boot lickers (they will introduce you to Important People); want to be up to date with all the gossip? Attach yourself to the Nice Lady Everyone Tell Their Secrets To. Etc.
I cannot stress this enough: Don't say names. On top of everything else in this list, don't say a single name unless you are absolutely sure you are in a safe space. Names have power, and if you complain about someone and say their name, that will have consequences. Maybe that person will learn you are talking shit, or maybe you will unknowingly make a political stance depending on who you are complaining about, maybe you are implying someone is bad at their job.
Don't assume that young people are your friend. This is a tough one I had to learn, but at the end of the day we are all surviving. Other young people will understand you and stick with you, but if an opportunity opens they will take it without saying goodbye. Or they have other priorities and career expectations and just... not be your friend after all. Not because you are also younger than 30 it means you are besties.
You will be bombarded with boomers and gen Xers talking about "the old days" and "how before things were better". That if you "just worked hard enough the company repays you" and such. Ignore them. Corporate job is not what it was, this isn't the old days anymore. Getting in is not as easy and it used to be, the salary doesn't last as much as it used to be and the productivity demanded is higher than ever. Ignore them. Most of them have been pushing buttons for 30 years and wouldn't understand the hellscape the world is becoming in the last 20 years.
You have to accept the reality that none of your 45+ years old coworkers are as qualified as you. The requirements for regular entry level corporate jobs now are insane, and "back in the day" you just had to show up and have a nice smile. Yes, it sucks. Yes, higher ups are the least qualified. Crazy.
Learn how to talk corporate. Learn how to say no, how to set down boundaries, how to politely ask for help. Normal people talk will instantly work against you because you are young. Talk like them and they'll listen.
This got away from me but eh.
Disclaimer this is just based on my experience and my culture - I live in Spain, Europe. I tried to keep this general, but I understand there's a bunch of social dances and understandings that are unique to my culture and may not apply to other people.
I am also autistic and I understand that it affects how I experience social contracts and behaviors.
This is just the bunch of rules I live by and I'm doing my best at surviving. I'm not a corporate rat and if I didn't need money to exist I would definitely quit, but I can't deny I have learned a lot.
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Alex So is a co-founder of FastLane Group, a tech-savvy professional accounting firm that serves the startup community. He is passionate about providing the best accounting and corporate advice and simplifying his clients’ accounting and management information process.
Being a fellow member of CPA Australia himself, Alex brings with him over 20 years of professional accounting, consulting and investment experiences gained from financial services and asset management industry. He held CFO roles in various financial institutions, private equity businesses and listed companies in the region.
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