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I actually really like the term genderqueer, because the only thing it specifies about your gender is that it's queer in some way. Does that mean you're nonbinary? Binary trans? Cis with some freaky cool gender presentation stuff going on? None of those or all of those? It doesn't matter and I think that's beautiful.
give me aro characters with complicated relationships to romance. give me aro characters who, despite knowing they're aro and will never reciprocate, like the affections of other people. give me aro characters who enjoy romantic attention because it gives them an ego boost, even when they're completely repulsed by the idea of actually ending up in a romantic relationship. give me aro characters who crave reassurance that the other person understands they're not leading them on, and who is still completely comfortable in their aromantic identity. give me aro characters with complicated relationships to romance
as much as I understand why the recent wave of trans solidarity posts are being made (to fight off radfems trying to turn transmascs and transfems against each other) I do find it frustrating that nonbinary people are mentioned only very briefly, if at all. and in that brief mention we're rarely mentioned rarely by name, it's usually written like "transmascs and transfems and all trans people", which... I understand, begrudgingly. being nonbinary isn't a monolith and nor is it a "third option" to trans men and trans women. but sometimes I do feel like people really do keep forgetting that trans people exist outside the transmasc/transfem false dichotomy.
happy nonbinary awareness week! one simple fact to start you off: in the majority of countries and territories around the world, nonbinary people are not recognised as a distinct legal gender—either as a single collective nonbinary gender, or as the whole spectrum it actually represents. If you do live in a country where nonbinary identity is legally recognised: that's brilliant! really! but please be aware of the privileges granted by having your gender be recognised on a legal level, which the majority of nonbinary people do not have.
I genuinely think more people getting into stories that are completely finished, or old enough that they're unlikely to be continued, would be great for the state of shipping and fandoms as a whole. Then, at least, there wouldn't be so much of a focus on whether or not certain ships 'deserve' to be canon, or arguing over what 'will' be canon. The story's finished. Just have fun. Ship regardless of canon status. Not everything must or will be confirmed.
not now kitten, daddy needs to reblog a dozen or more posts in a row about how everyone needs to write more weird self-indulgent porn fics, instead of actually spending its time writing said porn
there needs to be an ask game where you ask a person whether or not they think their blorbo has a particular kink and they have to answer yes/no, and why/why not.
actually, yeah let’s do this. ask away
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