Rather than any false denial of the past, then, what can be achieved through ethical remembering is, I would suggest, a certain disposition, a way of relating to the past that does not serve to form exclusive judgements or reinforce grievances, but, rather, to embrace the stories, the memories and the pains of the other. Drawing from the philosophy of Paul Ricoeur, I have described this particular disposition as "narrative hospitality", that is, an openness to the perspectives of the other carved out at the very heart of public commemorative discourse.
Michael D. Higgins, Corrymeela Community, June 4 2016 (Here: http://www.president.ie/en/media-library/speeches/speech-at-a-conference-entitled-living-well-together-beyond-2016#.V1VFPsREon0.facebook)