to the anon about her boyfriend who believed in men's rights: I broke up with my boyfriend about three weeks ago because he told me that feminism wasn't about equality and that I was being anti-male with my tumblr posts. There are a lot of things that I would deal with when I'm in a relationship, but this is not one of them. I realized that my boyfriend had become my oppressor. It was so terrifying to discover that someone I thought I was falling in love with believed that but I feel better now.
here you go anon, a real life example. it hurts at first when you end it with someone like that, but ultimately it's the best decision you can make. if your boyfriend doesn't believe that feminism and equality is necessary and worth fighting for then i'd say it might be best to end it, but ultimately it's up to you!!