EDIT: I don't like deleting posts (even when I've been widely mistaken) so I'ma just add this here that this has been explained better to me and I understand now lmao. Still don't like the instant death of the gay, but my understanding had been updated! 👍 Thank you @azzieisthebestcat for catching me up.
So here's my thing about the Destiel thing. (mind you I'm only on season seven as a new viewer but I've seen enough today on tumblr to get what happened). I thought that the angels were physically NB? Like they had no junk? Castiel is only male because he happened to drop into a male body. If he had dropped into a female one everyone would be calling him a woman, yes? Just like when other angels went from male to female bodies. So no matter who an angel loves, wouldn't it still be gay?? So why drop him into hell for loving dean?? Would it have happened the same if he had happened to stick to a female body??? And of all the things they made different from the christian bible in our universe, why make the "gays go to hell" thing REAL in their universe?! What's the point of that?!
Okay I'm done ranting. Just had to get that out there. Like wtf.
And if I'm misinformed from being too early in the series feel free to correct me!