Ilona Andrews COOKED when she said 'the hottest quality in a man is self control'.
And then stuck with it for all her main male love interests. They can be different levels of kind, of funny, of honest, but every single love interest is the type that hold themselves in complete control, and honestly, she's absolutely right.
Nothing more unattractive to me than a man that is ruled by his anger, a slave to his lust, and doesn't act with intention.

















