#current feel

[charlie-a-ravenclaw]

it is okay to not want to be someone's personal agony aunt

you are not a bad friend if you tell someone you can't help them

there is no rule that says you have to look after anyone

[ladyofthewoodlands-blog]

Whoever wrote this, yes. I'm not a storm, but a tsunami.

[crystalline-cactus]

Current Mood; cuddles with a stuffed animal, fairy lights, tear stained cheeks, curled in a cozy blanket, a lit candle, crickets and clock ticks in the background

[otterlyardent]

[blueblend]

So sometimes I just get so mad, so upset, so worn out... By societal expectations, and pressures that I don't even realize that I have. Many of them I'm aware of, though I try to ignore, but others smack me in the face when I least expect it.

I say all this to say, that my husband and I bought a house, ((because we're fuking amazing, and I'm hella proud of us,)) and my mother-in-law kind of took over the housewarming and wants us to throw up pictures on the wall so it looks lived-in, even though people are coming over because they know we just moved in, but I digress. I'm having a hard time figuring out which pictures to put up, so I asked two close co-workers and I show them all of our pictures, and one of them is fairly new, so I sort of just... Like, I apologize???? That our pictures are so mushy, and sassy, and romantic, BECAUSE THAT'S WHAT WE LIKE, but I'm so used to hearing people say that PDA is gross, or our parents saying that we should look at the camera more and stop taking so many candid shots, that I felt the need TO APOLOGIZE FOR US BEING US.

And that's complete bull. So don't do that guys.

[misunderstood-punpun]

I just want a gf who can end me by breaking my neck with her thicc thighs

[ibnerdi]