#cyber dating

[forevrdreamingofbetterthings]

i don’t even check my dating site accounts anymore bc it’s just so terrible, every single time. dating is the worst!!!

[asianbride]

Click and she has this fantastic selfie made by her Iphone 6.

[forevrdreamingofbetterthings]

I'm sorry about that girl. she doesn't deserve you. What did she even see that was so upsetting???

Thank you! Honestly I didn’t have the courage to ask and find out. All she said was that she looked more at my blog and realized that we actually don’t have all that much in common and that it wouldn’t work. So I said ok, thanks, have a nice day. The end. She was nice and respectful and all that, I am not even remotely mad, she did what she had to do and she probably saved us a lot of trouble/heartache. I’m just... feeling lost, alone, and screwed at the moment. :’(

[forevrdreamingofbetterthings]

This dude didn’t like me ignoring him so he eventually lashed out at my orientation as panromantic lol.....  #allclass

[forevrdreamingofbetterthings]

Whenever I read "no drama" on a dating profile all I read is "u can't have personal or health issues because that's too much emotional work for me". I'm probably wrong but it's how I read it, nonetheless. Am I too pessimistic and jaded?

[forevrdreamingofbetterthings]

@introvertedtothenthdegree replied to your post “i honestly cannot even figure out what possessed me to try online...”

I'd like to rec you an app called LGBTQutie a dating app for LGBTQIA folks that's aspec friendly ��

OMFG THANK YOU!!!!!!! I will recommend it to another ace-spec friend I met on okc who’s struggling with the exact same thing. Poor guy :(

[forevrdreamingofbetterthings]

so i finally decided to try online dating again and this is an actual screencap of a msg i - a panromantic demisexual - got on the very first day:

them: “you’re cute and i just learned about demisexuality on google and i’m pretty sure it’s actually nothing. u wanna chat?”

me: 

[forevrdreamingofbetterthings]

@jazn replied to your post “Whenever I read “no drama” on a dating profile all I read is “u can’t...”

That's totally valid. I also read it as "I can't handle your drama because I'm too busy being messy and problematic in my own life" it was a flaming red flag for me.

Thank you, I’m relieved I’m not the only one that reads it this way. It’s a total red flag for sure :(