I’m going to rant a little bit so I hope you guys don’t feel alone in this but
Dating is so exhausting for me right now. I hate the stupid apps, I despise them but I don’t know what to do to organically meet people. I’m a little shy but not overly so, I’m able to put myself out there if need be but my work doesn’t really have many people I directly deal with right now. Most things are emails and texts and we don’t need to think about the unprofessional side of it, but I’m just getting annoyed. Not to mention dating clients or customers is not at all appropriate so I don’t even think about that lol
Add on top that people have an expectation to hook up before dating???? I have no problem with people doing whatever and whoever they want but why is it almost a prerequisite for people to have fucked me before giving me a chance to actually get to know????
I believe love exists for sure but all of these frogs I keep talking to for a few weeks before having to ghost or get ghosted myself is so exhausting. It’s not that I feel like I need to be in a relationship but I’d just like one. Everyone says when the right person comes it’ll happen- and I agree! But it doesn’t make it any less tiring.
Add on top writing these stories and realizing there’s no one as good as the men in my head 😔 ugh. Modern dating is a headache.