"The worst part of holding the memories is not the pain. It is the loneliness of it. Memories need to be shared." -Lois Lowry, The Giver.
AD shared the above Lois Lowry quote with the family, and invited everyone to share their memories of MRH on the anniversary of his death. When I first started to think about what memory I would share, I had a difficult time thinking of a discrete story. Instead, I was easily able to think of all of the lessons I learned from my Dad and how I learned them.
It was an exercise that ultimately ended in me remembering a nostalgic timeline of memories, but for the sake of this post, here are a few MRH rules and lessons:
1) If you like a band or musician for 10 or more years, that means they actually make good music. They're not just a one-hit-wonder, thus you can play their music in Dad's red truck.
2) If you're nervous, it's a good thing. It means that you're doing something new, and if you're doing something new it means you're growing as a person.
3) Ikea furniture will only last you through one move, but Mr. Hudon, Woodworker furniture will last a lifetime.
4) The only coffee worth drinking is black coffee.
5) You can do anything, you just need to decide what you want to do and put your mind to it.
6) There's enough time to say, "I love you more."
7) Always go in for the hug.