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13 Reasons Why Not

Quote of the week: Be who you are, Not what the world wants you to be.

Your family

Your friends

Your potential future.

Your ultimate best friend.

Yourself

Your pet

You have so much to live for

Your dreams

Somebody out there is constantly praying to meet someone like you

You could save someone’s life tomorrow, next week, or next year, keep holding on

The world is yours to own

You are worth more than you think.

You will get to tell your story and change that person’s life.

Do you ever feel like the world is crashing down on you? You have the weight of the world on your shoulders and you can’t seem to get it off? You’re in a crowded room screaming and no one seems to hear a single thing? I know I have. 

I know exactly what that is like. I’ve been there, I have lived it. It took years and years to finally be where I am today, not only physically, but mentally as well. It’s definitely not the best feeling in the world, I’m not going to give anyone advice today but I will say this. Think about your future. What does it look like to you? A year from now? Five? Twenty? For me I see a happy family. I see a lot of great memories. Opportunities. 

For the people who constantly feel trapped, I feel you more than you will ever know. But it truly does get better. But you have to be the first step to make things become better for yourself. Do not be afraid to reach out either towards me (Danni), Drew or Alyssa! We are here for you no judgments. We are here to listen.

If you or someone you know is suffering from depression or suicidal thoughts or actions please, please, call the suicide hotline number. They have a huge team of professionals, and they’re open 24 hours.

1-800-273-8255

If you need advice do not hesitate to go to Ask Alyssa!

-Danni Dash

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13 REASONS WHY NOT!

Reason # 2. Your friends.

Everyone has friends. I don’t care if you think you’re the lonliest person in the world. But everyone has at least one friend. One person that they can always count on no matter what. Some have more than others. But every single person in this world good or bad has at the least one person. Now what would that one person do if you were gone? Move on? Make new friends quickly? Think they’re better off without you anyways? No. None of that.

For all you know, you could be their only friend as well. Or their best friend or they may think of you as someone close to their heart. And if you choose to leave. Choose to die what are they going to be left with? A hole in their life. A hole that no one can just fill up. Or put a band aid over it. No your death would be the reason they won’t trust anyone anymore. Or make it extremely hard for them to trust again. Open up again.

Take it from somebody who’s best friend did it. He figured he was better off. He figured I was better off. But 12 years later I still think about him daily. I still wish I got to see him grow up with me. I still wish I can spend one more day at the park and turn our tongues blue with the blueberry snow cones we always got from Tasty Snow. But guess what? I can’t. I remember the phone call from his parents the next morning after it happened. The regret I felt. My fist punching the wall before I slumped down to the floor going through one of the biggest breakdowns I ever had. The last thing I said to him? This is my biggest regret of all. I told him I hated him. We were going through a huge fight. We were both 12 at the time. So thinking back now, that fight wasn’t a big deal. But at the time it was huge and I told him I hated him. Then the news came the next morning.

Next time, when you go through the darkest thoughts in your head. Do not. I repeat do not hesitate to reach out to your best friend or anyone who will listen. Even if you’re scared that someone will say you’re looking for attention. I rather have you reach out than to actually do something. Hell if you feel like you don’t have anyone. Even if we are on bad terms. You can always come to me. I’ll be there holding my hand out for you. Just message me on RP or Kik day or night.

I’m not asking for sympathy from anyone. I’m just revealing my story. I honestly don’t tell this story to many people. But now you know why I came up with this segment in the first place. Why the show hits way too close to home for me.

If you or someone you know is having suicidal thoughts or actions please call the suicide hot line. They are available 24 hours with a line of professionals.

1-800-273-8255

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13 REASONS WHY NOT!

                    1. For your family

Think about your earliest happy childhood memory. Full of smiles, laughter, and who was there? Mom? Dad? Grandma? Grandpa? Cousins? Aunt’s? Uncle’s? Family right? Everyone was happy, smiling, just having a good time whether it would be on Christmas or just a random get together cookout. You were happy. You had the world at your feet. The world was yours to explore and grow right?

As we get older, reality gets more and more into your head and sooner or later we become adults. Moving out of mom and dad’s house. The cookouts and family get togethers become a once a year or not at all type thing. But the love for everyone is still there.

Now imagine. Just imagine for one moment that you were not in this world anymore. Think about the tears, the sad driven faces among those same family members that were happy in your childhood memory. The thoughts in their heads; “Why didn’t he/she come to me?” “I would have been there if I knew.” “Why weren’t there any signs?” I can honestly say all of this from experience. I’ve seen it happen. But this is why Family is my first reason.

I know that some of you have issues with your families. But think about the friends who became your family. They may not be blood, but they might as well be family to you. Think about them for a moment or two.

Tune in next week to see why your friends are the second reason why not.

If you or someone you know is suffering from depression or suicidal thoughts or actions please please call the suicide hot line. They are always there 24/7

1-800-273-8255

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