1. How does your character think of their father? What do they hate and love about him? What influence - literal or imagined - did the father have?
Mahvir doesn’t think much about his father; he doesn’t have one. He was an Arlathvhen baby, the result of a tryst between Davhalla and a man from another clan who. Uh. Maybe she didn’t catch the name of.
Mahvir feels some passing curiosity about his father and would talk to him if he ever had the chance, but it doesn’t have much bearing on his life. Dalish children aren’t just raised by their parents. They’re raised by the community as a whole. Maybe he didn’t know his biological father but he had Sulvun’s parents, Faron and Rosala, the hunters around camp who would humor him and his million questions, and his mother was quite attentive.
2. Their mother? How do they think of her? What do they hate? Love? What influence - literal or imagined - did the mother have?
Mahvir’s relationship with Davhalla is complicated. She was, for the most part, a good mother. She allowed him a fair amount of free reign and balanced it with responsibility and bonding time. She could be a bit overprotective when he was very young, but she grew out of it as Mahvir gained a bit more autonomy.
When he was ten, Davhalla decided he was old enough to understand the situation their family was in and the role he would have to play. Mahvir accepted the facts of everything, but he became terrified that Davhalla would abandon him. He became a bit clingy with her and he was anxious when she went away on hunts. He had no way of asking her whether she was planning to kill humans or how dangerous it would be. He always had to face the possibility that she might not return.
During adolescence, this turned into a touch of resentment. It wasn’t that he was afraid to start killing humans–he thought he would have his mother by his side–but he was angry about how afraid he was for her. When she did die, it didn’t have anything to do with Vir Banal’ras at all. She just got sick and couldn’t get better. Sometimes he can’t understand how things like that just happen.
(I can’t quite remember whether you followed me before or after I posted Osprey, but if you want to know more about Mahvir and his mom, their relationship is covered in Meadowlark and Osprey.)