#dearme

[pelajarkehidupan]

"Semoga kita tidak pernah lupa untuk pertama-tama menyisakan ruang di hati tentang pertolongan dari Allah di saat kita sedang kecewa sebesar-besarnya karena sesuatu yang kita sudah usahakan sebenar-benarnya"

[tricolorphase]

you shouldn't run on an injured ankle, and so you shouldn't overwork a burnt out brain

[thisisthemessofme]

Dear 21 year old me...

Hey friend, it's been a while. 5 years to be exact. I stumbled upon your page from a screenshot on TimeHop and decided to take a peek.

Man if you would have known the things that would happen over the last 5 years, it would blow your mind. It would also make all of that hurt and pain that we went through back then seem like nothing in comparison to what's to come.

Would you believe that today, at 27 years old life seems more complete than ever? Let me tell you about it.

You live on your own, in a house that you built, with the best little dog in the world. It's all yours and you're the one who did it! It's been an exciting journey to get here filled with plenty of tears, frustration, and a lot of money lol.

You're back in school... of course. But at the end of it you'll be a doctor. How cool is that? There's days that it kicks your ass and others that you're kicking it's, so enjoy the ride.

You're in love. Like real love. You've got an amazing man who traveled across the country to be with you. It hasn't been easy but it's all been so worth it. You're continuing to write your story and I promise it's so worth all the bad dates, ugly breakups, and lonely days.

You love your parents. Not that it's surprising, but you still talk to your mom on a daily basis and enjoy the familiarity of pulling into their driveway. Hold on to that because they truly are your rock.

You see, life has been a wild ride over the last 5 years and this blog took me back in time for a moment. Honestly, I don't even remember who that girl was back then. I'm thankful for the lessons learned but so much more thankful that you made it through. There were plenty of times that didn't seem like a possibly, but here you are. At 27 years old, life is good, not perfect, but man do I love it.

[nourishtoflourishyes]

dear younger me

//what I would tell younger me//.

change is not bad, change is not good. change is just change. &embrace it. 

growing up means making lots of choices for yourself. &it is okay to not make the right choice every single time.

being alone is okay. mediocre companionship is not the love you deserve. 

people come&go. it’s a part of life & not a representation of your worth. 

embrace not fitting into one group. floating between cliques is a quality you’ll value later; you’re relatable to many kinds. 

your time is coming, some flowers just have a later bloom. 

xoxo, twenty5 year old me. 

[ladyyzz]

Analysis of Dare me (SPOILER)

-BETH:

Is she a psycho bitch? Yes. Is she dangerous? A lot. Does she deserve all this? No, I need to protect her. Beth is a character built purely out of pain and frustration. Having to always stand out, always wanting to attract attention and lack of affection, I think it is obvious why, seeing their family situation, it is a clear example of not judging anyone for their behavior, everyone is fighting an internal battle ... and the scene where she runs out of the night and screams? Master piece. The scene with the anxiety attack by start remembering the rape when the other breaks her mouth? Another master piece. That is the problem of always wanting to be tough, when the inside goes beyond, there are fissures. She is tired of being the puppet of her parents and everyone, she is ready to show what she is and where she is because of herself and not of no one else

-ADDY

Honestly? I don't get her. I don't like her, that’s for sure, she has zero personality and she lets herself be bossed around by anyone. She is neither good nor bad, she is simply what they want her to be. She does not make clear her family and personal environment or anything and I do not know if it is an acting problem or what, but I had no connection with the character.

-REGIONAL SCENE

My heart continues to sound like broken glass after seeing this, I don't know how unsee it. She comes from a moment of frustration after the fight with her stepsister, realizing once again that she will always be everyone's second choice, and she can no longer take it, she needs to know why the person with whom she is most honest (Addy), with the one that she really feels comfortable and whom she feels that she is in a safe place to be herself, the person to whom she has given everything, even with all that, still does not choose her, she genuinely asks what the hell is wrong with her so that no one love her. I think it is the time that Beth has been most vulnerable, from what we have seen, the time that she speaks most honestly, head-on and without masks. I think Addy's response is truly cruel, even if she didn't feel that way for her, just for the affection she has for her, she shouldn't have said that. Still, Beth shows her inner strength once more, after her heart has been broken for the first time, she wipes away tears and she is ready to win.

-KISS SCENE

I've never been so physically hurt by a wlw kiss, it frustrated me so much .. the whole fucking series waiting for a kiss for it to be a flashback... I am very angry that Addy compares the two moments of the rain, with Colette and Beth, I am angry that this special moment with Beth is replaced by another with someone who has just met. I am angry about the subject of the bracelet, seriously, poor Beth. It gives me the feeling during the kiss that Addy is acting on impulse and letting herself go for the moment, that she really didn't kiss her because she wanted to, and it tears me down because the moment she moves away a little and they look at each other, Beth can't contain the smile, She can not believe what will happen, I love the face she has, of pure happiness, that finally she is going to kiss the person who she has long wanted. And when the flashback ends, Addy's smile feels like when you close a chapter of your life and you're ready to move on, like when you're at peace with your past, and I don't like it at all.

-FINAL

Absolutely everything Beth has done in the last chapters has been to protect Addy (very badly done, yes, but the girl does not know otherwise), and she is going to keep doing it, no matter how many times Addy pushes her away, once she will continue in the first line to protect her always, no matter what happens, because she loves her too much to see how they hurt her (and she hurt herself). I am very pissed off that Addy believes someone who did not even know over her best friend, I understand the frustration that it is for Beth and more because she is in love with her, but I am sure that Beth will continue there. It frustrates me that Addy reproaches Beth over and over again for being selfish, when she is doing nothing but protecting her, even talking alone with the person she least wants to see in the world (her rapist). Actually I don't know if I would like them to end up together, I meen I think it's more than clear that it is a toxic relationship, but besides that, if Addy hasn't already valued Beth after so many years, Beth doesn't deserve to be with a person like that, she deserves to be with someone who values ​​her and loves her as she is, with her demons and internal battles

[iffahnizar]

Things feel so stagnant these days. So icky-ly stagnant. Huh- I’m a bit confused and tired. Of all these uncertainties. Of all the what ifs and when will. I have been standing here, not moving, not able to, pressed on all sides. But i know i will move forward, I mean, where else will i go? So dear heart, dear me, Take a deep breath. It’s okay. It’s okay to take time. Use this moment to get things done, Slowly but surely, insyaAllah. You can do this. I can do this. Let’s go. Help me, ya Qayyum. Ease my affairs, ya Mujib. ———————— Dear Me minibook is available for purchase. Be my patron on patreon.com/iffahnizar #dearme #itsokay #confused #letsgo #islamicillistration #muslimcomic #muslim #muslimah #comics https://www.instagram.com/p/CFThMa_nQyP/?igshid=16k7tkvv6j1hi

[mrsraeschmidt]

Dear Future Self:

I hope you were able to get the job you've been dreaming of. I also hope your kids are doing well and that you've become a better mom. Things are difficult right now, there's a virus going around that's preventing me from working, it's also preventing me from doing activities with the baby and hanging out with my friends.

I hope you're better mentally, cause to be honest I'm struggling. It's been two months since my dad passed and I miss him. I spent my birthday crying, waiting for his call, waiting to hear his voice saying "happy birthday mija, I love you so much" like the many times he'd done before. I miss him, and I'm sure you miss him too. Each birthday, Thanksgiving and Christmas, all those holidays you'll miss him cause he was always there. I hope you teach your kids about him. He wasn't always bad, he had some good times, like when we played rugby and he supported us through it all.

Future Rae, I hope you've reached your health goals, remember there's people counting on you. Remember that your family is always there for you. Remember they're the reason you started, they'll be there to push you forward. Remember it's a journey so it won't always be easy but try your best and that will be good enough.

Remember to BREATHE, parenting, being a wife and working isn't easy, but you can do it. You're strong enough to handle it.

You are strong.

You are beautiful.

You are smart.

You can do it.

[benelly77]

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