Dedan relationship headcanons
Beep bop my first headcanons and it is safe to say by this blog's title that I simp for Dedan since 2014 lmao
No matter how tall his S/O is, there will always be a size difference since Dedan is taller.
Which gives him the advantage to carry them on his shoulder; and that is something Dedan is incredibly proud of.
Dedan might be generally grouchy and foul mouthed in presence of elsens and generally in public, but when he's all alone with his S/O he turns into a big softie. Also becomes quite clingy, refusing his S/O to leave with the excuse that if they go he won't be able to protect them.
Dedan wont admit it, but he adores it when his S/O kisses his hands and cheeks.
If they happen to kiss him in public, he will grumble a bit but will be okay with it.
Despite his explosive personality, he wouldn't dare to insult his beloved S/O, instead he'll redirect his rage towards the poor elsens.
Generally he is bad at expressing his feeling towards his S/O, so for Dedan his love language is acts of service. If something of theirs breaks or gets lost, he'll fix it/ replace it before they even realize. Or if Dedan notices that they haven't eaten he will get find them some food and afterwards ramble about how they can't be going on an empty stomach.
Circling back to how Dedan has a hard time expressing his feelings, whenever his S/O tells them he loves them he replies with a "Me too", or a "Yeah, I know". Other might think its cold of him to say it like that, but only his S/O knows that he is trying his best to not lose his cool and become a blushing mess.