#desertflower303

[shorm]

Hey there, just wanted to say I appreciate your blog. I like your honesty. We need more people like you in this world. :)

Aww, thanks! :)

[stefan-is-too-sexy-for-you]

Stefan raped Elena??? What the fuck is wrong with these little twats?Firstly, we're talking about a vampire/human relationship here, so the whole statutory rape thing is getting a bit redundant. That and Stefan's technically forever 17 so whatever. Age is a pretty poor excuse to call someone a rapist imo, especially since Stefan would never do anything to Elena unless it was what she wanted. None of the writers have EVER stated anything about rape with SE. Where the fuck is this coming from???

DErs’ minds are dark place. 

[pauldehaan]

(cont) THAT is what mysoginism is and yes he has even behaved that way with Elena. Eg. trying to compel her to kiss him, invading her private space continuously and refusing to leave, talking about her as if she BELONGS TO HIM, refusing to respect her and Stefan's relationship and taking her caring about him as a clue that she wanted more from him no matter how many times she said NO. I could go on but I don't need to, the text clearly shows you who the real mysoginist is.

[pauldehaan]

(cont) all so they could have "one happy day". By all rights, Stefan COULD have slut-shamed her, but he didn't. Rebekah asked Stefan why him and Elena broke up and he said that she slept with Damon. That's it. That's not mysoginism, it was just a FACT. Stefan being angry and heart-broken over losing Elena to his brother is NOT mysoginism. It's humanity. DAMON on the other hand has PROVED himself time and time again to be coersive and abusive toward women, all for his own satisfaction... (cont)

[pauldehaan]

(cont) Did you expect Stefan to be immediately supportive, even though Elena chose him and kept telling him over and over that he had no reason to worry? No reason to be jealous? And then (let me repeat it) SHE SLEPT WITH HIS BROTHER MERE DAYS AFTER THEY BROKE UP, while Stefan was in a tail spin, barely holding it together, her and Damon were sexing it up! How the hell did you expect Stefan to react to that and the fact that Damon COERCED her into LYING about it.... (cont)

[markofcaindean]

Rules:

Post the rules

Answer the questions the tagger set for you, then make 11 new ones

Tag 11 people and link them to the post

Let them know that you tagged them

My questions

1. What is your favourite place to be and why?

Oh god umm lol I would have to go with the library lol yeah I know. Books is there anything more to say. 

2. If you could repeat one day in your life, which day would you choose and why?  I honestly oh god umm I dont have a day thats good enough to want me to repeat it tbh lol. Probably when I met Paul I guess?

3. What is the most challenging thing you’ve done in your life so far?

lol I guess get over my fear of heights? 

4. What is your favourite fictional couple of all time and why?

oh jesus fuck IDK man I cant choose. 

5. If you could take back one and only one mistake in your life, what would it be and why? lol one? the one mistake I made when I started college tbh. 

6. What are you most excited by in your life?

nothing lol idk. 

7. If you could go anywhere in the world right now, where would you go and why? Venice hands down because just cause. Its Venice man

8. If you could change one aspect of how your fav show/book/film is written, what would you change and why?

I would change a lot in Supernatural by no means is it my fav but its one of my fav things that I want to change. Why? The writers are making some shitty writing choices thats why. 

9. What are you most passionate about in life?

lol books and learning how to counsel do therapy as a psychologist. 

10. Describe what you observe about yourself and the culture you live in and how they relate.  Well my culture can include both my Indian culture and my NYC culture. Both of which just make me anxious I guess. lol IDK 

11. If you could have a hand in one major positive change in this world, what would it be and why?  Anything that can take us one step forward to world peace. lol ok more realistically try to end violence against women.  Or try to find ways it can be prevented. 

[stelenaz]

I really think that last anon needs to go and fuck right off. It's you're damn blog and you can have whatever url you please! :)

exactly, thanks babe

[markofcaindean]

LOL so Damon "got the girl" that's all he's ever wanted right? So I guess we can stop watching all his scenes now because apparently his story is over... LOL

Its over before it even began. No point to it . And thats all he had and they took that away from him too. The real tragedy here my friends is that Damon doesnt have writers. Thats the tragedy of Damon’s character. 

And I go to sleep during his scene I dont think I ever got through one Damon scene without rolling my eyes. Oh wait no I do when hes not with Elena . 

His story never began lol.