#destroyedbyguilt

[thatslayer]

Random Buffy things that make me giggle.

On discord, discussing how sexuality in BtVS was actually quietly pretty fluid, not really constrained by any concepts of orientation boundaries, even if it didn't really advertise it - kind of progressive, especially for a show of it's time. Whether anyone agrees with the concept or not, there's the idea that sexuality in the Buffyverse is actually a spectrum, and not necessarily black and white, one thing or the other.

That leads to a discussion about how magic is often used as a metaphor for sex and attraction, and how even characters who have never expressed same-sex attraction break that rule when ritual or spell is involved (I have a special place in my heart for Anya getting turned on after doing a spell with Willow, lol) and @destroyedbyguilt decides it's time to talk about whatever the hell was going on with Giles and Ethan.

[damonstevedore]

FACT DAMON IS TOO HOT

              “While you’re calling the police and the fireman, be a dove and call Stefan the wambulance.”

[unicornsrequired]

is caroline jealous of faith???? any verse bc omg they're gonna kill each other xD

            Boy, howdy, is Caroline jealous of Faith. They seem to be on par with each other, jealousy-wise. Over stupid, old Stefan ( <3 @destroyedbyguilt ) in two verses. Over stupid, old Ric ( <3 @allroundlostcause ) in another.

They both see the other as an interloper, coming into their life and taking it away. They're both right, too. Honestly, as much as Faith adores Stefan, she was never going to end up with him. As much as Ric would have been better for Caroline, she's not meant to end up with him, either.

     Both women have incredibly hard-tack self-loathing. Both easily made jealous. Caroline's a perky, well-off little blonde, and that's enough to make Faith see red. Faith's a well-endowed, doe-eyed brunette who commands attention and Caroline's been there, done that and has the tshirt.

             Truthfully, neither's really taken anything from the other. I think they're just so worried that history will repeat itself, that it's hard for them to realize they ended up with the loves of their lives and it's because of each other, not in spite of each other.

[iwannadogirlystuff]

@destroyedbyguilt

“Yeah, I bet you say that to all the girls.” Buffy smiles, a little joke in it as she invites herself to Stefan’s table. “Of course Faith’s wardrobe’s not helping any, but I’m choosing my battles a little more carefully these days.”

But come to think of it, she really was having an on hair day. “Speaking of which, how goes thee sibling rivalry?”

[thesordidone-blog]

[Damon] @destroyedbyguilt​ I'm bored and you have books. Lame books with no pictures. [Damon] Stefan. [Damon] Stef. [Damon] ... Stefan.

[thatslayer]

smash or pass for Stefan @destroyedbyguilt

andgilesshhhhh @markedbyeyghon

     𝐒𝐄𝐍𝐃   "  𝐒𝐌𝐀𝐒𝐇   𝐎𝐑   𝐏𝐀𝐒𝐒  “   𝐅𝐎𝐑   𝐌𝐘   𝐌𝐔𝐒𝐄   𝐓𝐎   𝐀𝐍𝐒𝐖𝐄𝐑   𝐇𝐎𝐍𝐄𝐒𝐓𝐋𝐘   𝐀𝐁𝐎𝐔𝐓   𝐘𝐎𝐔𝐑𝐒.   𝐍𝐎   𝐋𝐘𝐈𝐍𝐆   𝐀𝐋𝐋𝐎𝐖𝐄𝐃  .

"Are we seriously askin' for a pet ego, here, Stef? Remember when I busted you in the jaw with the side of that battle ax? Yeah, still that. You take one step in my direction, Imma rock your entire day, that's real."

"Giles, on the other hand... look, I get this new version of Giles is all young and hot, and that's great, and all. Am I the only one who dug him before? Just me?"

[thatslayer]

You give good Damon. This message will self destruct.

Lmao, hi you. Also, thank you! I haven't been on my Damon game lately so I appreciate that. <3

[thatslayer]

GETTING TO KNOW YOU MEME.

1ST  RULE   —   tag some muses you would like to know better. 2ND  RULE   —   BOLD the statements that are true for your muse.

muse.  Faith Lehane fc.  Eliza Dushku occupation.  Hunter, Vampire Slayer, all-around jock age.  37 sexuality.   Heterosexual) pronouns.  she/her

APPEARANCE:

i  am  5'7"  or  taller.  

i  wear  glasses.

i  have  at  least  one  tattoo.

i  have  at  least  one  piercing.

i  have  blonde  hair.

i  have  brown  eyes.

i  have  short  hair.

my  abs  are  at  least  somewhat  defined.

i  have  or  have  had  braces.

PERSONALITY:

i  love  meeting  new  people.

people  tell  me  that  i’m  funny.

helping  others  with  their  problems  is  a  big  priority  for  me.

i  enjoy  physical  challenges.

i  enjoy  mental  challenges.

i’m  playfully  rude  with  people  i  know  well.

i  started  saying  something  ironically  &  now  i  can’t  stop  saying  it.

there  is  something  i  would  change  about  my  personality.

ABILITY:

i can sing well.

i  can  play  an  instrument.

i  can  do  over  30  push–ups  without  stopping.

i’m  a  fast  runner.

i  can  draw  well.

i  have  a  good  memory.

i’m  good  at  doing  math  in  my  head.

i  can  hold  my  breath  underwater  for  over  a  minute.

i  have  beaten  at  least  2  people  in  arm  wrestling.

i  know  how  to  cook  at  least  3  meals  from  scratch.

i  know  how  to  throw  a  proper  punch.

HOBBIES:

i  enjoy  playing  sports.

i’m  on  a  sports  team  at  my  school  or  somewhere  else.

i’m  in  an  orchestra  or  choir  at  my  school  or  somewhere  else.

i  have  learned  a  new  song  in  the  past  week.

i  work  out  at  least  once  a  week.

i’ve  gone  for  runs  at  least  once  a  week.

i  have  drawn  something  in  the  past  month.

i  enjoy  writing.

i  do  or  have  done  martial  arts.

EXPERIENCES:

i  have  had  my  first  kiss.

i  have  had  alcohol.

i  have  scored  the  winning  goal  in  a  sports  game.

i  have  watched  an  entire  season  of  a  tv  show  in  one  sitting.

i  have  been  at  an  overnight  event.

i  have  been  in  a  taxi.

i  have  been  in  the  hospital  or  er  in  the  past  year.

i  have  beaten  a  video  game  in  one  day.

i  have  visited  another  country.

i  have  been  to  one  of  my  favorite  band’s  concerts.

RELATIONSHIPS:

i’m  in  a  relationship.

i  have  a  crush  on  a  celebrity

i  have  a  crush  on  someone  i  know.

i  have  been  in  at  least  3  relationships.

i  have  never  been  in  a  relationship.

i  have  asked  someone  out  or admitted  my  feelings  to  them.

i  get  crushes  easily.

i  have  had  a  crush  on  someone  for  over  a  year.

i  have  been  in  a  relationship  for  at  least  a  year.

i  have  had  feelings  for  a  friend.

MY LIFE:

i  have  at  least  one  person  i  consider  a  “ best  friend ”.

i  live  close  to  my  school.

my  parents  are  still  together.

i  have /  had at  least  one  sibling.

i  live  in  the  united  states.

there  is  snow  right  now  where  i  live.

i  have  hung  out  with  a  friend  in  the  past  month.

i  have  a  smartphone.

i  have  at  least  15  cd’s.

i  share  my  room  with  someone.

RANDOM SHIT:

i  have  break–danced.

i  know  a  person  named  jamie.

i  have  had  a  teacher  with  a  last  name  that’s  hard  to  pronounce.

i  have  dyed  my  hair.

i’m  listening  to  one  song  on  repeat  right  now.

i  have  punched  someone  in  the  past  week.

i  know  someone  who  has  gone  to  jail.

i  have  broken  a  bone.

i  have  eaten  a  waffle  today.

i  know  what  i  want  to  do  with  my  life.

i  speak  at  least  2  languages.

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